ThanksGiving And What Your Thankful For.....

And it is that time of the year again to where you give Thanks and the things that you are Thankful for.

Around this time of the year, I could remember when my grandmother would be up in the wee hours of the night fixing up a good meal for everyone, and family coming over to visit. There would be music playing and the scent of the Holiday in the air. Those were the good ole' days back then. I think that the most part of the Holiday that I enjoyed was to see family that I might not have seen in a long time or family that I may have never meet. It was exciting for me. Especially when my uncle would come to visit from Georgia. He was my cousin and I favorite uncle. Maybe it was because we rarely got to see him. But we loved when he came to visit. We would ever so often imitate everything he does....LOL! It use to make him laugh. My mom and aunts would ever so often help my grandmother prepare dinner like, picking the greens or making the cornbread and etc..and my grandfather would always get the first slice of Home made pound cake fresh out the oven with his black coffee sitting at the table....LOL! I would always sit around and watch......only if I wasn't being bad....LOL!


When it was time to eat, everyone would sit around the table and hold hands and say what they are Thankful for OR one family member would say a prayer and tell what he or she is Thankful for. Those were the days.

Now, it seems as if Holidays aren't as important to family anymore. Like now, I have my own family. My children. I have three of them and it is only us for the Holiday and I would cook up a big meal like my grandmother use to do (may she rest in peace) My food might not be as good as my grandmothers because she threw down. But it's good enough...LOL! My mother may come over and sit for a while and I would have to damn near beg my cousin to come over some times. But it gets to a point to where you be like, forget it. It'll just be me and my little family that I've created. And I'm Thankful for them. They are the reason why I get in the kitchen to cook such a big meal for the Holiday anyway. Times have changed. We didn't see family as much but for the Holiday, you were sure to see them. Sometimes, your Thankfuls don't seem to be enough.

Well, to not make this story so personal, I decided to type the things that I 'am Thankful for, for this Holiday Season.
I'm Thankful for being able to wake up to see another day.
I'm Thankful that god have put 3 beautiful people in life(My Children) whom will love me unconditionally no matter what I do.
I'm Thankful to be able to wake in the morning to hear my children's voice and to look into their eyes and to see them smile.
I'm Thankful for being able to live to see another year and another Holiday.
I'm Thankful for my mother. Because if there was no her, there would be no me. So I'm Thankful for her giving me life.
I'm Thankful for all the things that I have been through in life that I was able to snap back and live and to not be strung out on any type of drugs.
I'm just Thankful for being able to be myself and have three Beautiful children in my life that I love dearly.
I'm also thankful for my family. Even though were all not as tight as a family should be, but I'm thankful for them anyway :)

HAPPY TURKEY DAY!!!!!

!Video Of The Day! Brandy "Fall".....

Chopped And Screwed Moment...

Have you ever been in a situation to where you meet someone and the conversation went good? You talk about the atmosphere and where your from or heading? Had a person to ask you if you were available on a certain day? What would many think when in that situation? Well here is my Chopped And Screwed moment.....

So one day, I was out driving and enjoying the weather on a nice hot summer day when this car pulled up next to me at an red light. I was grooving to my music and not really paying attention to the guy next to me until I decided to check my rear view mirror on my passenger side. Noticed the guy looking at me and he cracked a smile at me and did a head nod. I smiled back.

So anyway, here's when it gets interesting. I pulls up into a gas station to fill my tank up because I was getting low and I like to keep a full tank. Without paying to much attention, the same guy that was smiling at me was right on my tail pulling into the gas station too. I get out of my car to go inside to pay for my gas when I heard the guy speak, "Excuse me miss". I didn't really want to turn around to see what it was that he wanted but to be nice, I turned to see what he needed.

So anyway, he asked me if I would come to his truck because he wanted to ask me something. I oblige. Went to the truck to see what was up and he started to ask me if I stayed in the area. I told him yes. He asked me where my man was at. At this point, I'm like 'oh he think he slick coming at me with that Ice Age line'. So I bit and said, probably some where searching for me. Meaning,I'm still looking.

So anyway, we proceed further into a conversation and he asked me if I was available on Saturday night. I said that it all depends. So at this point, I'm thinking that he wanted to ask me out on a date. Eventually he told me that he was new in the area and was trying to find a hot spot to kick it at and if I would want to double date with him and his fiance!.....OMFG!!! I could have died!!! So yes, Ms. Observer was Chopped And Screwed!

Omarion Joins BSV!!

Now I know that you are aware of how Omarion can get down with the get down and puts on a hellava performance for his fans when in Concert. But what I've noticed over the past few years is that Omarion can really dance! without having to be Choreographed or anything. He can really get hood and show off his street skills.

Now this group by the name of BSV has now made Omarion a new member of the group, and he is going by the name of "O'llusion". Now I haven't known of this group until I seen it on YouTube on Omarion's page and I must say that these are some really talented people. One that I've favored so far is a guy that goes by the name of "Ghost". He got mad foot skillz. Anywho, take a look at how they get down....

Whooo!

After watching that, it makes you want to get up and get grimey wit 'em! Omarion really impressed me and I love to watch him dance. Can't wait to see what else this young man have instore for us.

Omarion Cuts His Hair!!!

I might be a little late on this topic but hey, I got a life too!
Anyway, the chrooner that we all know as Omarion from the crew B2K has said that he wanted a change. He made a mager change by cutting off all his hair! (which will be posted for your viewing pleasure)

It was a little odd for me at first when watching because half of his life as we seen him from the media's eye, he had long hair and thats what a lot of us was use to seeing. But after while, it grew on me because he looks quite handsome to say the least. But the thing that boggled me was.......I don't know if it's because when B2K first hit the scene, it was talks of Omarion and Marques Houston being brothers or what but....he looked just like Marques to me when his hair was cut. Take a look for yourself and be the judge..........

Album In Stores December 9th!!!!

The long wait and anticipated Album from Brandy is soon to come. We have waited to hear from this song bird who has done it all from Singing and receiving tons of rewards, to Acting on the big screen and small, for 5 years now and her jig is up! Us Brandy fans need to hear some real music!

I was waiting in anticipation for this album to drop this month November 11th until my hopes were shot down by her website when they pronounced that her album was being pushed back for another month. I could have cried....LOL! No seriously. I have been following around Brandy since her "Thea" days up until now. I'm talking about recording each "Moesha" show that aired on television. To the movies that she played and so on. I even recorded her show "Special Delivery" she did with MTV. I was on to her like white on rice because I'm one of her number 1 fans! I just can't wait until the album drop because I will be there at Target...or whatever else store to get her album bright and early! December 9th look out for Bran's new album "Human".

Tyrese And Brandy Dating??

Singer/actor TYRESE is bemused by reports he's dating R+B star BRANDY - because they are so close, she is like his "sister".
The childhood pals sparked rumours of an affair after they were spotted out together on Sunday (16Nov08) at the Westfield Century City Shopping Center in Los Angeles.
But Tyrese - full name Tyrese Gibson - insists their relationship is purely platonic.
He says, "I would never date her (Brandy) - it would be like dating my sister.
"It was a simple lunch amongst friends. I love her like family but the rumours of us dating are really old."
And Afrodisiac hitmaker Brandy confesses she is still single - and has been since 2005.
She tells Us Weekly magazine, "I haven't dated anybody in three years."

!Video Of The Day!

Self Respect, Is It Important To You?

How far do one plan to go just to prove that your accepted in another persons life? Is it worth degrading yourself? Being labeled something you know your not? Well some just go that far.

Sometimes in relationships, people tend to forget who they once were. Without taking this subject off to something totally different, I just want to say that a woman have the power to be more than what a man may label her to be.

I seen a couple that was very open in they relationship and the openness of the relationship made me question the woman's character alone. Now when your feeling someone, you like to be able to be out in the open with how you may feel for one another which may require some hugging, kissing(but not to passionate) every once in a while. But then it becomes a problem when private parts are cuffed and held tightly as if you lost it to a game of spades with someone.

Let me elaborate a little further. The couple that I was talking about in the beginning looked to be a young couple and the guy was really aggressive toward his girl friend that was very disrespectful toward her and any other woman because he was the definition to a lot of woman answers out here that questions on how men view us as woman. And it is, whats between the legs is what it all boils down to. Like the photo I have above, the guy was standing behind her but had something occupying one hand and his other was occupying her private part. Gripping it like it was some type of new fur he won at an auction!

To her, she seemed to be enjoying it because she was all smiles like, "How YOU doing" and that was not where it was at. I mean seriously ladies. You have the power to say what you like and what you don't like. Use your voice. Even if you do like it at that time but at least have some respect for yourself enough to say, "Baby, we out in public. Can we save for later on when we are alone". It will work wonders. If a man can't respect your wishes then he has no respect for you at all.

Now being young is not an excuse and that's what she think is probably the in thing and yada, yada, yada and it's what they see on T.V.......B.S....a person is old enough to know that behavior like that is degrading to self alone.

Have some DIGNITY Ladies!

Barack The Vote!!!

And we have one of the most sexiest men alive to grace us with his presence as being the President of the United States of America! I'm so happy for this Victory that has come upon us in this Millenium of 2008. On Election day, I was so nervous. Nervous with voting and the outcome for a change.

I came home on November 4th and went straight to the voting pole. My children and I because they were able to vite as well....even thought they votes doesn't really count at this time but it was fun for them. It was actually really quick! Unlike some places where it was long lines waiting to vote. It was REDICULOUS in some states. But it was good to see that people were really serious about voting this time around. If only people took the election this seriously when Bush was running for president because then the Economy wouldn't be so bad. Don't you think? But overall, it was a beautiful sight.

I even seen young men with only they're shorts on and some house shoes just to go and vote. Of course, I shook my head at the sighting of it. But it was worth it because no matter who they choose to vote for, they vote counted and it helped :) There is good qualities about us having Barack Obama as our president and then you have the bad qualities of him being our president. Let's start with the bad shall we..........

On Election day, I seen some people act in a such nonchanted way that actually....never seem to amaze me. But I guess by it being a Victory day, it seemed more outlandish to me. Whilst on the bus....Because me and a few of my friends decided to go out and encourage people to vote and if they wasen't able to vote to go in and register and be able to vote on the spot, you know, if they haven't already. So whislt talking to people, you have all type of people that would ride the bus. And a man got on the bus in which his body odor was a little loud. I mean, I didn't really smell the guy because by that time, I had worked my way to the back of the bus. The bus was CROWDED and it required for some people to stand.

So this guy gets on the bus and of course you got the loud, ignorant people on the bus who will always try to make a scene. It was two loud mouthed females on the bus in which one had a pink baby bag(with no baby to show for) wil give more details on the bag later on. And it was 3 loud mouth.........NO.....4 loud mouth guys on the bus. One of these guys wore a brown jacket...in which that is how I will prefer to him since I didn't know his name.

When the guy got on the bus, everyone started to talk about how he smelt. It must have been terrible because everybody was moving around and covering they noses. Me on the other hand didn't really smell him so it was like o.k he must really smell. So one of the female's was busy talking about how this guy smelt so bad. If he smelt so bad, why wasen't the people who was actually getting a good wift of this guy complaining how she was complaining?!....and she was in the back where I was. So people started to crack the window on the bus and everything which was a little funny to me. So anywho, one of the girls was like, "man, where something at so that I could spray his ass wit?" by this time, she was searching into the baby bag. And the girl that the bag belonged to told her not to search her baby's bag for her stuff. This is when the guy in the "brown jacket" chimmed in: "I was about to say, you aint got no perfume or something cause I'll spray his ass wit it"....smh...ignorance at it's finest.

So the girl goes to dig in the baby bag anyway saying, "Show do". And the girl who's bag it belonged to agreed all of a sudden. In which they just wanted to pull dudes bluff to see if he'll actually spray this other guy with the perfume. She finds it, then hands it over to him. The guy takes it and removes the top from the bottle. By this time, the bus driver was telling people to move toward the back some more because she was steadily picking up people and it required for the "stinky dude" to move toward the back as well. The guy in the brown jacket stood up to spray the guy who's hygiene was so bad. And yet, I have smelt this guy.

So he was spraying him like crazy and while the stinky guy was turning to move to the back of the bus, he caught the other guy spraying him...smh... The guy then tries to snatch the perfume bottle out of his hands. By this time they were tugging over the bottle in which it slipped both of their hands and flew into another person's lap. The guy with the brown jacket on then proceeds to hit the other guy in the face and says, "man don't you ever try to snatch nothing out of my hand". Fuckery at it's finest. And they were right in front of me! Myself, along with other passengers was like "Whoooo" when he hit the guy. The stiky guy of course didn't do nothing! He just stood there in quite a shock. He also locked to be intoxicated.

It was just horrible. And I'm like why? why on Election Day of all days?!?! Stupid stuff like that will make other races look at us like we don't need to let people like him in the White House. Because you know if other races mark us as being, crazy, disfunctional, unsatisfying or whatever else......they label us all.

What I want to say to MY black people is DON'T use our president as an excuse to act an ass for the next four years. Yes Barack is of our culture and I'm sure he's going to make sure that we live good. But....he's not only vouching for US as an one. He's vouching for everyone who indeeds lives in the United states of America! Do not use your color to try and get by and DO NOT use who we have in the White House as an excuse to get away with shit that you know isn't right. We made HISTORY! Now let's live History the right way.

BARCK THE VOTE!

WE DID IT!

VICTORY R US!!

Who Said Just Because You Make Money, You Can't Still Be Human?!

Pictured are singer Tiny Tameka Cottle(L) and her children Zonnique(C) and King(R) having fun with their web camera in their Atlanta home. In all, rapper T.I has six children,two of whom are with his girlfriend Tiny Tameka Cottle.The couple welcomed their second child together, a baby boy named Major Harris, on May 16th.

Who said that just because you cant hang around all your originals from the hood because you hit Celebrity status That you can't still be original and do silly things that everybody else does?! How cute. Now this is what I like to see. She's letting it be known that she is indeed normal like everyone else.

Brandy And Sy'rai's Sketchers Ad

Singer Brandy and her 6-year-old daughter Sy’rai have teamed up with Sneaker brand Skechers for the ‘Nothing Compares to Family’ ad campaign. The ad campaign,which features other celebrity families, is slated to run in 2009:VIA SKECHERS:

The SKECHERS USA, Inc. “Nothing Compares to Family” promotion, slated to run through 2009, stars some of today’s popular celebrity families and benefits children’s charities with ads breaking in celebrity weekly magazines and other fashion and lifestyle glossies.SKECHERS plans to rotate a variety of different celebrity families throughout the campaign, featuring mothers and small children and adult celebrities with their sisters, brothers, parents and grandparents. At the heart of the campaign is Skechers’ commitment to family. Each ad will be tagged with a charity of the celebrity’s choice, ones that are family-related, such as the Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation International or Habitat for Humanity, which builds homes for families.

Monica's And Boys 2

Monica Has the most HANDSOMEST boys I've seen by far and had to post pics of them... :)

Singer Monica,who recently announced her engagement to her boyfriend rapper Rocko Da Don(Rodney Hill jr),is pictured with her two sons three-year-old Rodney and 18-month-old Romelo. The 27-year-old singer has a new album to be released next year as well as a reality series called, “The Single: Monica”,which premieres in August 5th. The portraits were shot by none other than celebrity photographer Derek Blanks.

Diddy's Day Out...

Sean P. Diddy Combs(Daddy Diddy),his ex-girlfriend Kim Porter(Mommy Kimmy), spent time with their 19- month old twins D’lila Star and Jesse James over the weekend. Diddy’s sons Christian,10, and Justin,14, were also along for the fun. Watch the video of Diddy and his kids at Central park on Saturday.

OBama Family

The Obama family recently sat down with People magazine to talk about their family life. In a snippet of the interview below, Democratic presidential candidate Barack Obama and wife Michelle tell People how they raise their girls in the public’s eye.

PEOPLE: Someone told me today that you don’t do birthday presents.

Michelle: No, because we spend hundreds of dollars on a birthday party and movie tickets and pizza and popcorn …

Barack: That sleepover is enough. We want to teach some limits to them. And their friends bring over presents.

Michelle: They get so much stuff that it just becomes numbing. Malia believes there is still a Santa Claus even though she’s a little wary because some of her friends are non-believers. But Malia says, “Ma, I know there is a Santa because there’s no way you’d buy me all that stuff.” [Laughing]

PEOPLE: So what does a slumber party at the Obama house look like?

Barack: They’re pretty noisy.

Michelle: The older they get, they just talk a lot. But they’re at the age where they’re pretty self-sufficient. [For Malia's birthday] we’re going to go swimming, see Wall-E, make pizzas, have sundaes.

Barack: I usually go for the swim but this time I want to go to the movie just because Wall-E has gotten great reviews. I find actually that children’s movies are the best movies these days. But I’ll probably, after that, peel off until the cake.

Michelle: [Laughs] “Peel off.”

PEOPLE: What does discipline look like in your house?

Barack: Mommy raising her voice.

Michelle: It’s usually a lecture. It’s a lot of conversation. Or it’s separating them. Or it’s saying if you guys can’t decide nicely what program to watch, then you don’t get to watch anything. It’s sort of pulling away a privilege. But in all honesty, we don’t have to discipline –

Barack: If you ask them to do something, they’re like any other kid …

Michelle: They’ll whine a little bit.

Barack: They’ll test boundaries. But if you say, “Guys, this is what we need to do …”

Michelle: An example of this is one night I was going out, I had to do a fund-raiser, and I told Malia, “You guys really need to have an early bedtime because you’ve got to get up tomorrow and have a busy day.” So my mom was there, and my mom doesn’t adhere to bedtime. She’s kinda, “Well, maybe you wanna start taking your bath…” But that night, she said she sat down to watch TV with them and they both got up, turned off the TV and left. And my mom was like, “Where are you going?” And they said, “We have got to go to bed early today, Grandma.” And they went downstairs, took their baths and went to bed, and my mom was just stunned.


Read more on the Obama's
http://www.people.com/people/article/0,,20214569_3,00.html

50 Cent Say's His Babymama Is Holding His Son Hostage

Rapper 50 Cent says that his ex-girlfriend Shaniqua Tompkins is holding his 11-year-old son hostage. The rapper was recently given visitation rights to see his son but says that since the court battle over their long island residence,Shaniqua has fled with their son. In a new interview with Sister 2 Sister magazine,50 a.k.a Curtis Jackson gives us insight as to how the battle between him and his ex began:

The rap star insists the war of words began when he insisted on finding his son a better home and improving his education.He tells the publication, “It wasn’t important before the beginning of last year because he (Marquise) was being home schooled… I was paying a teacher $60,000 just to teach him by himself.“He was learning slower because it was just him and the teacher. So he needed to go to where he had the best possible schooling district and I found a house in the area that was, like, $1.5 million.”
But 50 claims Tompkins started receiving bad advice from friends, insisting on more child support to match her new situation.The battle led to the rapper winning a court order to evict Tompkins from the home he’d bought for her: “Her lawyer decided to present to the public that 50 Cent is kicking his son out of the house.”Since the fire, Tompkins has fled with the rapper’s son, as she battles custody and child support.
He adds, “Now they done kidnapped my first one (son). My son’s mother got him, holding him hostage.”

Michelle On How Her Children May Turn Out

“There are the small worries, micro-worries, about whether we’re doing all we can to let them be fully themselves, trying to make sure they have the space to be who they are and that they feel loved and supported. Then, there’s the macro worry about, ‘Okay, if we do our jobs and they turn out well as individuals, what kind of world are they going to be in?’ ~Michelle Obama’s thoughts on her kids (Malia, 10, and Sasha, 7).

Monica Talks About Her Boys And Engagement

Singer Monica recently sat down for an interview with StraightFromTheA.com to talk about her kids and her engagement to the father of her two children. In the interview,Monica mentions that her fiance Rocko Da Don a.k.a Rodney Ramone Hill proposed to her on Christmas Eve:

“It was Christmas Eve at midnight, we were home alone in the bedroom and he said ‘close your eyes and listen.’ He put the ring on first. I knew what was coming next so I did what I was asked. He proceeded to talk about our history together, the kids. He and he very directly just popped the question. I automatically said ‘yes!’

Monica says that her older son Lil Rocko,3(not pictured), is not at all jealous of his baby brother Romelo Montez. “I included [Lil Rocko] in EVERYTHING during the pregnancy…except naming the baby of course.I let Rodney choose the first name and his middle name is my brother’s.” The singer also adds that she takes her kids everywhere and that she would never move her children away from her family in Atlanta:

“I would never separate my children from my family.Also, my entire crew is from Atlanta and I couldn’t imagine separating them from their families.Rodney and I have looked into vacation homes but my main home will always be Atlanta. If you are from the A, [then] you know that Atlanta artists are extremely supportive of one another.”

Chris Rock Fathered My Child And I'm Writing About It!

A lady named Kali Bowyer says that actor Chris Rock is her baby daddy,even though a judge ruled otherwise in 2007. Kali has written a new book titled “Hollywood Child” in which she alleges that Chris Rock fathered her 13-year-old son. In addition,Kali says that getting pregnant with Chris’ baby helped her to leave her drug-filled world behind:
The courts have ruled in Chris Rock’s favor, but one Georgia woman refuses to let go of her claim that the comedian fathered her child, and is even moving forward with plans to write a book detailing her alleged relationship with Rock.
In the press release Kali Bowyer circulated for her upcoming book “Hollywood Child,” Bowyer claims her past included “a hot affair with racy comedian Chris Rock.” Her life, according to the release, “started crashing down all around her,” until “getting pregnant with Chris’ son saved her life.”
Rock’s attorney John Mayone had not received the press release, but says, “I assume this is a publicity ploy for her alleged book.” On the subject of paternity, Mayone reiterated the decision of the Georgia court that concluded that Rock was not the father of Bowyer’s son. “There is a final judgement. This is not Chris Rock’s child. It’s been fully litigated, and that includes DNA testing.”
So why is Bowyer moving ahead with her book? She says she wants to continue fighting the paternity question in California. Mayone dismisses that possibility. “The time for appeal has long since passed,” he says. As for the book (no publisher is listed in the release, and Bowyer did not respond when asked about it), Mayone says, “I’ve not seen this (press release for ‘Hollywood Child’), but I’m sure that Mr. Rock will respond accordingly.”

Rude Customers

Now I use to be an customer before..and still is but now I wonder; 'Was I that bad?!' I mean...people can be really rude! I know first hand. Trust me. And it aint easy sometimes. I mean, we as employees makes mistakes but so does the customers. My first tip would be to all the customers out there that love to shop and especially like bargains...PLEASE.....please make sure that what your looking at IS 50% off or on sale because once going to check-out, 9x's out of 10, the cashiers DOES NOT know whats going on the floor where things are being stocked. It will save a lot of energy in getting mad at the cashier for sales that he or she is not aware of.

I've had quite a few customers that would come in the store like right after the sale is over and will be ready to chop your head off if the sale is not valid anymore. I mean, before leaving the house, did you not look at that same sales paper and notice that the date was indeed 2 to 3 days ago?! probably not because I wouldn't...LOL! but seriously though, after being in the shoes of a cashier and knowing what they go through..I felt a little bad for my behavior. Just for a minute. I'm working this job because I need it. But putting up with them customers is work indeed. Not only do you have to go back and forth with them to explain that if it does not come up in the system as 50% off that it's not 50% off...you have to go through actually locking and leaving your register to go to the floor to PROVE to them that the item they wish to purchase is not on sale anymore. Then they want to talk about false advertising. It's not false advertisement if you know what your buying!

Lost Children In Stores

Now, to all you parents out there. Lets agree on some things here; If you go to the Grocery store, Department store, Outlet store.....or ANY KIND of store for that matter. Make sure that you know that your children are close to you!

Don't go into an store and just let your child run freely without your supervision. Anything could happen to them. Someone could openly walk out of the store with your child you not knowing nothing! I work in a department store and a lady and....no two ladies and two little girls(whom looked to be atleast 10 and 11 years old) Came to my register asking if I seen 2 little children......boys, running around the store. The adult didn't ask me if I seen any little boys...one of the little girls asked me....smh and I'm wondering if the lady who was present was the mother of one of the children or either she only knew how to talk or understand so much english and what she understood could not have been much.

So I asked what was the children's name. She gave me the names and I went over to my Supervisor and notified her that 2 little boys were lost in the store. While standing at the counter and listening to my Supervisor call the attention of the shoppers in the store and warn the children to come to the service desk, I glance over at the woman(whom I assume were the parent) and she's over there laughing!!.... *sigh* Now was I missing something? How can you laugh about your child missing???

So I tell my Supervisor, how can she be laughing and her child is lost??....smh ignorant. Keep a hold on your children when out shopping. Or if you know that you will be in the store for quite some time, leave your children at home so that'll way, you wouldn't have to worry about your child wandering off or playing in the store like they are at the park or something and you'll know they are safe at home. Hell, if they are too young to be kept at home, have someone in the family or a close friend to watch them. Don't bring them to the store and let them get lost!

But eventually, they found the children.

Breaking Up Isn't Easy! Pt3

Here's another quote for you guys:

"Here I am w/ a black eye after yet another violent fight w/ the bf. I want to get out so bad, but its hard and the police can't protect me. It only makes him madder when they get involved and he always seems to get out of it someway. I just feel alone, I don't really want anyone in my family to know b/c they just end up making me feel worse. I just don't understand why he does this, I had a job interview tomorrow. Everything in my life is just so fucked up right now. I know I should leave and I'm really disappointed w/ myself b/c I'm so much better and stronger than this. Please no mean comments, I just wanted to vent and maybe hear how others have gotten out of similar situations"

First of all...This guy does this because he is insecure with himself and most of all an COWARD!! This is just Stephanie all over. She was the same way(read post below) She went through the same thing with her ex and suffered from an black eye as well. Situations like this, no matter what you may fear would happen, YOU HAVE TO END IT! Dont let a person put such a hold on you that you are to afraid to do whats right.

If you have to get the police invovled in situations like this..press charges on his ass! that will give you enough time to move on with your life and relocate if fear lives in your heart that badly. No woman deserves to be put in this situation. The quote above says that he would get angry if she was to call. Then keep your hands to your damn self! then the police wont have to be invovled. Then the messed up thing of it is, she had an job interview. Another woman trying to do right and get her life together but then have some ungrateful knuckle head on her hands who obviously does not want to see her succeed. Because 9/10, he aint got nothing going on with his life so he want to drag her along with him. Dont let that happen. The first sign that you get that your mate is aggressive.....no matter how you may feel about the person, break it off! because you could end up like some of these girls on the news. Hold on to your dignity and dont ever let a man tell you that no one will want you but him because that is a lie!

And this girl knows that she's so much better than what she's getting from this guy and she knows that she a strong woman. Her only problem is fear. Dont let it control you. You control it.

Breaking Up Isn't Easy! Pt2

I have a quote from someone:

[quote]One Of My Girlfriends Is Stalking Her Ex And His New Woman. I Have Tried To Talk To Her..be She Is Out Of Her Mind! I Am Worried About Her.....what Would You Do?[/quote]

Now situations like this people...Dont do. When moving along, the main thing here is to cut off communication. Dont go stalking the person that broke it off with you because that will make you look really desperate and like your just settling. Don't let your ex see you sweat. If he or she feel the need to call you...Don't answer the phone. let it go straight to voice mail. Remember that he or she broke it off with you! or if it was times that you tried to make it work and the other party looked at as if yea whatever, I'm gon do me. Remember that he or she is doing you a favor and that you are top notch priority.

The said quote above. This female is going about it the wrong way. By stalking someone is not going to make that person want you even more. If anything, your further letting that person know that you are nuts! And thie new female is getting a really big laugh out of the situation because she has someone that you obviously want and not over. The key word is moving along. Dont go along and get yourself in trouble that you may possibly end up doing time for. That is not where it's at ladies and gents....that is not where it's at.

Breaking Up Isn't Easy!

People who has been through this situation knows that it isn't easy to move a long from the one you loved and hoped to share your life with. But life have to go on, and you have to make sure that YOU are taking care of. The most IMPORTANT thing and someone when going through a break up is YOU!

Some people, may feel as if the world has ended and that there is no going on with your life if you dont have that special someone by your side. Dont EVER in a million years, think that your life revovles around someone because without him or her in your life...you WILL be alright. Who knows, maybe the person who did the breaking up, did you a favor. You have to think of things like that. Don't waist a lof of energy on the what if's and what should have happened and etc...Get yourself a hobby and move on. Start to date other people. You dont have to be serious or committing yourself to soon to someone...but to get over that hump. As crazy as it may sound, but sometimes having someone around..just to show you a good time, will help you get over the ex.

When trying to date. Some people may feel as if no one else would want them but the ex that you were once with. But let me tell you something. That is not true. Sometimes, you HAVE to go out and meet people because sitting around mopping is not going to bring that one man that you deserves to you.

I have a story to share with you guys. A friend of mine(who's name I will not mention. we will just call her Stephanie) Stephanie was dating a guy for 4 years of her life. And trust me when I say that it was the most miserable and depressing four years of her life. I'm talking going through being abused. Not just mentally but mostly physically. But no matter what the situation was...Stephanie decided to stick with her man through thick and thin. Did he appreciate the things that she did for him? that I dont know. But from what I saw, I would say hell no. See, Steph had this thing that she was so in love that no matter, it was worth her sticking around. I wish that she would have just left before things got really hectic for her. Now this guy that she was dealing with, eventually spent time in the pin. He did 5 years incarceration and Stephanie still rode it out with him. Even though Steph could not support him financially while in the pin...when he first went in, she did what she was able to do financial wise. But was what she did appreciated? HELL NAW!!

So to try and nip this tory in the bud real quick. This guy was finally released from jail and Steph and the guy she loved decided to try and work they relationship out because, while he was incarcerated, they had problems then....arguing and saying things to one another that could really hurt them mentally. But the change from Steph was something that this guy was not ready for. Because while they were together, she was weak minded to him and in a way gullable because of the things he would do like: messing around...being unfaithful to Steph with females right in the next building or up the block and staying the nights out or what have you...no matter what, Steph let him back in...

Now ladies(and men if your going through the same with a female) dont let a man or woman EVER think that they got it that good while in a relationship. If something aint right, nip it in the bud before situations get worse. Thats something that Steph didn't do.

Now back to Steph....she let him back into her home no matter what he seemed to have done. He didn't work, he stole out the house, he was abusive and on top of that, they have children.And all of this going on....smh so anyway, he gets released and they decided to work something out. Now Steph had a lot of resentment toward him. But some where down the line, she hoped and believed that some of the things he would tell her became true one day. He'd say little things like he wanted to make her happy and be a family man and all the other good shit that comes aloong with it. Did she get it? Hell naw! She got nothing but yet Steph was at his every hand that held out for help. She put his first peice of clothing on his back, food in his refrigerator(because he stay in a half way house transitional thing) took him places that he needed to go with no money for gas and on top of that, was throwing him money like it wasent a problem. But you know what Steph did?! she eventually broke it off with him. I was a little confused because even though they decided to part ways, they were still messing around. I was baffled and wondered why..??.. neither of them wanted to end it but then on top of all, he got a white girl pregnant. that is what made Steph move on and step over them stones and get on with her life because I know and she knows that she DO deserves a lot better. Always a no good.......9/10 will always be a no good. This girl is now moving on with her life. Found her a job and planning to go back to school. And to be honest, the way that she was with him, I had to ask, whats the key to your moving on? and she said motivation and love for her children and most of all being strong and have dignity :) thats my girl.

So when moving along(with half the story I gave you guys because it waaay more than that to it) you have to stay self motivated. If you have children, be motivated fro them. Not saying that a guy going off and getting another girl pregnant is the key to just move on OR a girl going out and getting pregnant by another guy is the key to move on. Move on when you know and see that things arent right. Get out before you get dragged in the gutter and so will your self-esteem. It takes time to move on from the ex. but it will happen.

So before I cut it short. Keep your head high and know that you are beautiful and you ARE more precious than gold and cant no one tell you different. Just because it took a man to help bring you into this world, DOES NOT mean that you need a man when leaving this world.

!Song Of The Day!

This is my Song Of the Day! I found this song by just browsing on YouTube and I fell in love with it the first time I heard it. it's Called "Pull Ya Hair" by the one and ONLY King of R&B Kelz!

Enjoy :)

Have You Ever Wondered??........

Have you ever wondered if your mate was cheating on you? have you ever wondered, where did he spend his day, besides work,and comes home being so tired.......so tired that he has no time for you? If you have wondered those things, what is the first thing that come's to mind?

Most ladies will come up with the conclusion that her mate is indeed cheating. and I say that if your intution tells you that something is fishy going on, you follow that intuition because it will never fail you. all woman want the perfect relationship with they're spouse and to be able to live happily ever after like the fairy tale. but, unfortunately, some people don't get to live that fairy tale. no one gets to live that fairy tale, even if the mate isn't cheating or not.

When it come's down to trusting your mate, you have to trust them completely. without assumptions. because without trust....what do you have? and that answer will deflect like an empty box with nothing coming out. it takes a lot of work, to build trust within a relationship with some people. but for most, trust is invited without question. an old myth of mine still come's up every once in a while. if you trust a man a little too much, they are cheating. if you dont trust a man, they are not cheating. or maybe you just trust him, but don't let him know that you trust him. if you let him know that you DO trust, he may be tempted.

If you do wonder if your man is cheating, here are a few clues to go by. If your man, switches up his underware and by something out of the ordinary....let's say that your mate wears nothing but boxers, but one day, he decides to go out and buy more than one pack of briefs...without you mentioning the change, chances are, he's getting them for the other woman. If your man decides to switch up his scent to something that you've never reconsidered or to something that you would never have thought he'll wear, chances are, the other woman considered that he wears it.

If you mate starts an arguament with you on a regular, and it has no meaning behind the argument and is just basically irrelevant, it is because he is trying to have a reason to go and visit the other woman. If your man, say for example is a hairy person....say on his chest, his legs, his arms and etc...and you one day notice that he felt that it was important to shave any of them area's....and you didn't have aproblem with the hairs on his body from the start, chances are, he's doing it for the other woman because she has said something about it. If your in the mood, and you have not seen your mate all day because of work and all of a sudden..he pulls an unusual over time and come's home and seems to be tired than he would normally be from working a 9-5 job or an 9am-8pm job, chances are, he got off of work early to spend time with that other woman.

If you guys share an bank account, and you keep notes on how much you spend and what you've bought. and you normally know the amount your mate will spend on just his self alone, and you notice a big dent in the shared account that you guys have, chances are, he's spending it on the other woman. Now, if your mate decides to do something for you on a special day/holiday and he bought you gifts an etc..but you find a receit to a gift that you did not receive, do not hold back on asking questions because chances are, he bought that extra gift for the other woman.

Ladies, do not sleep on your mate stepping out on you. pay attention to the sign's and dont let him get away with it. you may love your mate to no need but do love suppose to hurt?!?!?.....

Be Smart Ladies!

Just A Test 2

Ok, so now I've seen that everything has spaces using the HTML

Now I'm going to switch back over to Compose and see if the spaces will be visible


This is the compose

testing, testing 1,2.....

Bye now :)

Just A Test....

I'm typing and I've been using the Compose part of the post. and for some reason I can not use my space bar...everything is close together and that erks me something awful so now I'm going to switch over to the HTML and see if I can use my space bar there


This is the hot mail

Testing,Testing one two........

bye now :)

I'm Suppose To Be YOUR WIFE!!!!!!

This is an image from my FAVORITE new movie, "Why Did I Get Married". Tyler Perry know that he knows how to put a good movie together. I've seen the play and it was so, so. but the movie covers all of that. he also had some amazing cast members in the movie. people such as Janet Jackson, Malik Yoba.......well, I'm sure that you've seen the movie so you know who played in it(not to mention that I forgot the names of the other cast members..LOL!)

But I wanted to touch a few things that's in this movie that people are really going through in real life. let's take Jill Scott's character for example....well for this post period. now, as in real life situations, I'm pretty sure that when he(Mike) married this woman(Sheila) she had a few pounds on her to begin with and he was attracted to her then...which was in college and now all of a sudden, after ten years, you are no longer attracted to the woman that you married?..........your WIFE!?!!! it is really sad. if you feel that your wife does not turn you on in such ways anymore, why let the relationship continue and head for disaster?

The part that got me the most was when they were on the airplane and she invited her friend along........now LADIES dont EVER, EVER, EVER bring another woman around your man. especially if her physical appearance is more attractive than yours(which I will talk about later) now, she made it seem as if she was really hurt that sheila husband prefered to sit next to her, other than his wife in which she had to sit in another seat in fron t of them in which she was "to big" and making another flighter uncomfortable. along those lines, an flight attendant comes and tell her that a woman of her size has to pay for, not one but two seats in order to continue on her flight. the husband than gets really bold with her and it ticked me off so damn bad that I wished that I could have smacked him through the T.V screen.

So she ended up driving all the way to the mountains where all the friends are suppose to meet up. NOW LADIES don't you know that a girl like me would have SET IT OFF on that plane!?!.....I' 'am your wife and you got the audacity to hand me my bag and tell me that you will meet me at the cabin?....no way in hell that would have happened. and you and my "suppose to be friend" ride the damn plane there?!!.....no way in HELL! just because god made you a certain way does not give a person a right to treat you like poop on a sidewalk. some people cant help the way they are shaped and it is hard to loose the weight. but people who are not going through such things don't understand that much. and by him being her husband, he should have been able to help her out through it.

And the sad thing is, people are really going through stuff like that in they marriage/relationship in real life..... afraid to leave because they think that don't no one else want them because of they shape.. and by your s/o some what accepting you, you think that he is all that you could get. that is not true. don't ever think that you have to continue to be with a guy who will degrade you in every aspect all because you think that it's impossible to find someone who will lift you in the aspect in which your husband forgot to lift you in! if you have did all that you could do to make your marriage/relationship work, but he still finds no respect for you, then it is time to pack up and leave. don't sit around and wait for you to find out the bad news that he has had sex with your friend in order to leave. leave when he has no respect for you.

And that's another thing. bringing these skanky ass women around your men. dont trust no one around your man. especailly if that woman is more attractive than you and the key thing of it all......IF SHE IS SINGLE! don't do that. your man will get tempted to test the waters and by this woman being a single bird, she will do whatever she can to try and get what you WERE getting. I don't care if this man took good care of you(in which this was Sheila's case)you do not have to go through that. leave before the situation gets worst. Even though it took Sheila a minute to see thethings that were blind to her....when her friend Angela let it all out(I heart Angela by the way)she left with a bang, meet a nice man, shed some pounds and re-married. see, when a man loses some one that was very dear to them, they do not realize it until they are actually gone out of they life. and thats how Mike was when he seen her again for the first time in years. and she was glowing and happy....LOL! I loved that part. but Ladies, keep your head up and remain dominant. there is nothing like a good strong woman. :)

The Other Side Of The Family....

My photo may look a little bit tacky but hey, what can you say, I'm a beginner with this computer stuff. just getting familiar with my miss paint *giggle* .....well, I'm not quite a "beginner" per se but learning to use certain programs on the computer s what I'm a beginner at.(edited photo)

So anyway, this topic today is concerning Family from the other side. as in your S/O family members and/or siblings as well as in parents. how do you cope with them? or just get in good with the family period? it's a hard thing to do when you first enter a relationship. it will not be easy at the start but if your a good communicater, then everything should turn out just fine.

When it came to me meeting my s/o's side of the family, it was an awkward situation and some things happened during the time of me meeting them. my significant other has 2 siblings...1 brother and one sister. before actually meeting the sister for the first time, I talked to her over the phone first. and we also bumped heads over the phone( how could that happen...LOL!) but it did happen. all over her brother and some true facts that she did not have any idea about until I had to put her in her place. I don't know who she THOUGHT that she was talking to, but she knew that I was not the one to be sending threats to. I mean it was all type of talk about her wanting to come to my place of residence and thought that she would actually be able to whoop my ass...LOL! which was funny to me from the beginning. so I told the gilr that if she thought that she was THAT bad, then bring your self up here and see what happens..

So eventually after talking over the differences, we became cool with one another. to a certain extent. I still dont trust the chick and it's some type of jealousy isues going on. not from me, but from her for some reason. I meet the mother once in my life. she even stayed at our apartment for a little while but we no longer speak to one another for other issues that took place. and I'm the type of person that does not kiss anyone's ass...I don't care who they may be or who they are related to. as long as she stay on her side of the fence and don't interfere with my life, we all good. far as the brother, I meet him only once in my life and that was maybe 5 months after I gave birth to my s/o first son. we did't conversate, I meet him and let him spend time with his brother. but we have talked over the phone maybe twice concerning his niece and nephews. other than that. they stay where they are and I stay where I 'am.

However, you got some families that actually gets along well with they're s/o's side of the family and I think that thats a good thing. but I look at it like this. at the end of the day, you are not having sex with your s/o's family and you are not entitled to do anything with yiur s/o's side of the family. bottom line, you are not put on this earth to make them happy nor like you. as long as you and your s/o is happy.....that is all that matters at the end of the day. you DO NOT owe his family a damn THANG!! so keep that in mind when dealing with the other side of the family. if it does not work out for you, don't let it sweat you. if it works out, then fine..you all will live a happy life.

50 Cent and Fat Joe Still Beefing?!

50 Cent has been labelled a "coward" by rapper Fat Joe.
The 'Candy Shop' star - who famously survived being shot nine times at close range in 2000 - is a "punk a** motherf***er" who is too scared to leave his home, according to his hip-hop rival.
Fat Joe, real name Joseph Cartagena, ranted to website Complex.com: "He got shot by people who he knows and he doesn't do nothing about it. He gets criticised by people like Ja Rule, little Ja Rule, and he never even fought him one on one. He's going to come f**k with Fat Joe? Are you serious? He still don't leave his house.

"He's looking for attention, I'm gonna diss him. I'm gonna tell him to suck my d**k, everything you can think. I'm gonna tell him that. What does he want out of me? He's gonna tell me, 'Oh, Fat Joe, you're a sucka', and I'm gonna be like, 'Suck my d**k you punk a** motherf***er."

The two rap stars have been engaged in a war of words since the video for 50's 2005 hit 'Piggy Bank' featured an animated boxing match between the pair which ended with a cartoon Fat Joe being badly beaten.
Joe responded with the song 'F**k 50' in which he dubbed him "the fakest gangster around".
Their feud was reignited last month when 50 said he would like to "eliminate" Joe from the "rap game" on US TV show 'Rap City'.

The 'Lean Back' rapper responded by branding 50 a "clown", on the same programme the following week.
On his new song 'Southside Nigga (I'm Leavin')' 50 threatens to put Joe's "brains on the floor".

When the hell is one of the two going to ever grow up! it's more than enough money out here for the both them. all that beefing aint even necessary. get that money together and stop bullshitting!

Valentines Day

Valentines Day is slowly approaching and with that being said, why does that day...February 15th have to be the day where your significant other have to do extra things for you?

I have had Conversation's with a lot of people concerning that day, and some may say that they will not want anything special for that day. and some will say that they want Diamond Rings and Roses and Candy/Cards an etc. Then you got some that will say they dont really care about that day because they dont have a mate for that day so basically, they just say forget Valentines Day (with the vulgar word beginning with F).

I use to look forward to getting gift's and candy for that "Special" day. but then I thought, 'why can't your(hyperthetically thinking) boyfriend/girlfriend make the day speacil 365 day's out of an year? why only one day?'. Valentines Day is suppose to be a day to where you can show your significant other how much you love them. but if you really take the time out from being greedy and wanting extra and glamorous things, and just take a look at the things you want and may get, are things that are materialistic!

Is that what a relationship is based upon? Materialistic things? I mean seriously. whatever happened to just spending quality time together? or just cooking a meal for your mate...making a nice warm bubble bath, rub/massage your significant other feet..massage their back and relaxing together and watching a blockbuster movie, conversate an etc. doing little things such as that is saying a whole lot. I have a friend, who told me that she wants a wedding ring for Valentines Day. but the problem with that is, her bf is not ready to marry. and the saddest part about that; he does not want to marry her! but she's willing to go all out in getting him the things that he wants be it: clothes, shoes and earrings. and I'm not talking about a dollar store earring, we talking R-Kelly diamond stud earring.

Dont take this one day... and go all out for you significant other... just because it'll look good for the both of you. or just to say what your s/o got for you. do it out of love. and if buying your mate things that cost a hundred dollars or more is showing them that you love them. then you need help! and with that being said, here is a love Quote of the day:

"People think love is an emotion. Love is good sense".

Martin Lawrence Interview On Movie "Welcome Home Roscoe Jenkins"

There comes a time in every raunchy comedian's career that they start making family movies. That time has come for Martin Lawrence. He eased us into it with the Big Momma movies, but Rebound and Open Season made it clear that he was doing things for the kids. His latest film, Welcome Home Roscoe Jenkins, is for the whole family. From children to veterans like James Earl Jones, with comedians like Mo'Nique and Mike Epps in between, the title character has to deal with his whole dysfunctional family on a reunion weekend.

Crave Online: How do you pick projects?

Martin Lawrence: Oh, the paycheck. The paycheck usually helps me know. No, if the script is good, but the paycheck helps though, I tell you. If the script is good, if it’s something I can read and I go, "You know what, if I do this film I could do justice to it." Then I try to get into it, and it’s something I try to put out there for you guys to see, and hopefully enjoy.

Crave Online: Do you think comedians all have dark places that it comes from?

Martin Lawrence: Right, but people that don’t make people laugh, you all sitting here. All of us could have very dark lives and everything else. Sometimes the pressure is all what you make it. If it’s something that you really love what you do, you get into what you do and you work hard to do just what it is you’re trying to accomplish and make people laugh. I don’t think you have to have a dark side to make people laugh.

Crave Online: Did you want to show a little bit of a dramatic side in this movie?

Martin Lawrence: Well, to be able to show a dramatic side in this movie for me was special for me because I don’t get an opportunity to do that very often. To be able to do it opposite James Earl Jones was just big. He showed me who the real vet was, because I thought I was doing something and he turned around with a tear in his eye saying, "Young man, can you do this?" And I couldn’t do that. I said, "Oh my God, I’m dealing with a real veteran here." But it was a lot of fun, so I was glad I had the opportunity to do that, and try anyway.

Crave Online: Do you have aspirations to do more full on drama?

Martin Lawrence: If the right script came along, I would love to try it. I haven’t had an opportunity because I never get sent those kind of scripts. They don’t think of me for them for whatever reason and I never get them so that’s why when you have something like Roscoe Jenkins that allows me in to have that kind of moment with James Earl Jones in the movie. I’m proud of that moment. But if I ever get the opportunity, I don’t even think it’ll be about the money. It’ll be about something that I feel that I could honestly bring to you guys to show you that side.

Crave Online: With a cast full of comedians, did you have to restrain yourselves for the rating? Is there any juicy stuff we'll see in bloopers?

Martin Lawrence: No, I’d be interested to see the bloopers they have because I don’t remember all of it, but I didn’t have to pull back on anything because I’ve been doing it long enough so I know when to press go and when to press stop. So I just enjoyed everybody else and what they had to deliver. Michael Epps is just so funny off-camera, his energy, his spirit, Cedric singing all the time when we weren’t doing anything, just his energy and spirit, and Mo’Nique is just hilarious, so the whole cast was just a joy and just wonderful to work with.

Crave Online: Did you feel like the leader because you’re the biggest name and most bankable star in the movie?

Martin Lawrence: I’ll gladly take that role, meaning the Chicago Bulls had to have Michael Jordan, right? Lakers got to have Kobe, Miami got to have Shaq, right? So I’ll take that, but you know what, I couldn’t have did it without my teammates. So we all support each other, we help each other, we’re one big cast, so we’re one, that’s it.

Can Usher Make a Comeback??

After this man, known as the R&B King after pulling the album Confessions, make a comeback for the year 2008? I'm worried because you know once a man get's married, be it a celebrity or just a man in general, they begin to lose focus and that makes the music sound unfocused *shrugs*

After a lot of talk about Usher coming out with a big bang in the year 2007, it was still talk's to whether he would sell as he did with "Confessions", because he has lost a lot of his fan base over the years. especially after he married Tamika.

Here's a song that was leaked last year from his "Infamous" album that was suppose to have dropped last year. listening to the song, I thought that it would end up being a nice song. although, I do admit to liking the beat to a certain extent. but as the song goes on, there is really to much going on in the song. you be the judge of that....



After listening to that, I must say that some where in there, my head started to hurt *pops a tylenol* I'm mad because I know that Usher could do waaaay better than that. but hey, who 'am I besides a fan?! he seems to not really care what we want these days. here's another song (sorry guys about having to leave the page, I'm still learning) the link is below...now before I put the link, I want to mention that I'm not feeling this song at all. all it take's is 5 seconds for me. and if it does not catch anything....to force me to move and snap my fingers in my seat, It aint a hit. but again, you guys be the judge.


http://www.zshare.net/audio/71511490546a51/

Flavor Flav gets MyNet Sitcom

Flavor Flav, the Public Enemy rapper turned “Flavor of Love” reality TV star, will make his sitcom debut with “Under One Roof,” a half-hour program scheduled to debut on MyNetworkTV this spring.
MyNet has ordered 13 episodes of the show from C to the B Productions and Qtopia Entertainment.
Flav will play an ex-convict who encounters a culture clash when he moves in with his wealthy, conservative brother, played by Kelly Perine.
C to the B’s Claude Brooks and Qtopia’s Darryl J. Quarles will produce. Among their credits are shows “Lyricist Lounge” and “The Fresh Prince of Bel Air,” and feature films “Big Momma’s House” and “Black Knight.”

I aint mad at cha Flav! Get that money Mayne!!

Brandy's Mom, Sonja Norwood Is Suing Kardashian's

Brandy's mom and manager Sonja Norwood is suing the Kardashian siblings for racking up over $120,000 in alleged illegal charges to her credit card.
In court documents obtained by PageSix.com, Sonja claims that Kim, who was Brandy's stylist in 2004, "was authorized to make one (and only one) purchase on behalf of [Sonja]," using her American Express card. Sonja goes on to allege that Kim shared her credit card number with siblings Khloe, Kourtney, and Robert Jr., leading to Kardashian shopping sprees at the Norwood's expense.
The allegedly unauthorized charges included $62,793.83 in 2006, and $57,841.82 2007, for a total of $120,635.82 dollars. The suit claims that thousands were even spent at the Kardashian's own stores, "Dash" and "Smooch."
documents:

HollyWood Change....

While I'm still Online and posting, I wanted to bring up the topic that was once talked about in the year 2007 for Keyshia Cole's Vibe issue in the month of December. Now, I must admit that when I first seen the cover of the magazine, I had to take a double look at the picture because I did not recognize Miss Keyshia Cole!

she looks more.......HOLLYWOOD!..that's the word that I'm searching for. she does NOT look like Keyshia Cole(I can't say it enough) Now these celebrities goes into the buisness as they self and end as a totally different person. from the look's all the way down to they attitude. However, it is a few that I could name that went into the big scene and still look the same and act the same. but, oh so many that I could name who does not look nor act the same.

Why do these celebrities, let these people get into they heads and visualize an image that is not for them..and they instantly take the bait?!....that's something that I would always wonder because even if you ask them, they will argue to differ and say that nothing about them have changed. but yet, everyone else will notice it but themselves. it's just sad to say the least. Keyshia is a Beautiful young lady, and don't really need all that extra to bring her looks out.

Then they always try to tell other people about how they should feel comfortable in they skin and blah, blah, blah but they can't even feel comfortable in they own skin. isn't that calling the kettle black??...Like my girl Vivica A. Fox. when she first became noticed, she was a normal person trying to make a way. now my girl done went and got a nose job and boob job and maybe even a face lift. LADIES....let your body age! If God wanted you to look young forever, he would have made us that way. If you have flaws, it's alright, no one is perfect. no matter how another person see's you, you are beatiful and we are all gods children.

Be comfortable as YOU are. not who or what THEY want you to be comfortable as.

Lyfe Jennings In Concert

The Ohio native, Lyfe Jennings, doesn't hesitate to give the audience what they want as he begins his set and opens with tracks from his new album, "Lyfe Change".

Hard to believe that at the young age of 14, Lyfe Jennings went to jail for arson. But as a result, the popular R&B crooner discovered his love for music behind bars and was released less than a decade later.

After his acclaimed self-titled debut album and his second album, "The Phoenix", Lyfe is back with is latest project, "Lyfe Change".

Robert Deniro and 50 Cent On Cover of Vibe

At the photo shoot, De Niro’s early, seated in a director’s chair, reading The New York Times. Looking over the top of his glasses, he asks without speaking, “Where’s Curtis?”

Curtis is stepping off the elevator, looking slim, not quite so superhero about the shoulders. As the bulbs begin to flash, the two of them are a little awkward at first—until Jackson picks up a bat, then a tiny toy pistol, at one point a toy Oscar. When they change into dress suits and ties, they loosen up. On the hanger, the look is very businessman, but the models transform the clothes quickly—to gangsta businessman. There is a menace to these two and an unpredictability. Real, imagined, or engrained by their personas, it’s what they bring, without half trying.

Robert Mario De Niro Jr. and Curtis James Jackson III. No matter what roles they play, no matter what else either of them do—have families, run businesses, write, direct, and produce—De Niro and Jackson are both gangsters. They’ve both made lives of portraying them—50 in real life, onstage, and onscreen, De Niro mostly onscreen—perfecting the pose and madness and especially the cold souls of men who have street mentalities, who have little to no remorse about living lives infused with violence and crime, murder and mayhem.

50 is more of a snitch than a gangsta!.......just my thoughts *giggle*

Message Board Mess Part 2

Now not to long ago, I made a post concerning the Internet and Message boards.........just browsing the internet period and being careful with who you put your information in the hands of. the next few clips that I'm about to post is actually something that took place a while ago, maybe like a week ago or so and it is some Beef, with some ladies that actually chatted on a Message Board and actually meet up with another and hung out. some crazy happened(As mentioned in my first post) and information was passed around and these two ladies are now beefing and can't really stand each other guts! put this in your memo people: Keep Internet people over the INTERNET!!!

So anyway, Ms. Alexyss Tylor some how got caught up in the middle of all this drama. it's two sides to every story but unfortunately, I dont have the audio for the other girl. So anyway, take a look at how the Internet could get involved into your personal life..

The beginning..



Part 2 of 1 internet threats...



Part 3 of 2 internet threats..



Part 4 of 3 internet threats...Now this is just to much. y'all have to watch yourself