!Song Of The Day!

This is my Song Of the Day! I found this song by just browsing on YouTube and I fell in love with it the first time I heard it. it's Called "Pull Ya Hair" by the one and ONLY King of R&B Kelz!

Enjoy :)

Have You Ever Wondered??........

Have you ever wondered if your mate was cheating on you? have you ever wondered, where did he spend his day, besides work,and comes home being so tired.......so tired that he has no time for you? If you have wondered those things, what is the first thing that come's to mind?

Most ladies will come up with the conclusion that her mate is indeed cheating. and I say that if your intution tells you that something is fishy going on, you follow that intuition because it will never fail you. all woman want the perfect relationship with they're spouse and to be able to live happily ever after like the fairy tale. but, unfortunately, some people don't get to live that fairy tale. no one gets to live that fairy tale, even if the mate isn't cheating or not.

When it come's down to trusting your mate, you have to trust them completely. without assumptions. because without trust....what do you have? and that answer will deflect like an empty box with nothing coming out. it takes a lot of work, to build trust within a relationship with some people. but for most, trust is invited without question. an old myth of mine still come's up every once in a while. if you trust a man a little too much, they are cheating. if you dont trust a man, they are not cheating. or maybe you just trust him, but don't let him know that you trust him. if you let him know that you DO trust, he may be tempted.

If you do wonder if your man is cheating, here are a few clues to go by. If your man, switches up his underware and by something out of the ordinary....let's say that your mate wears nothing but boxers, but one day, he decides to go out and buy more than one pack of briefs...without you mentioning the change, chances are, he's getting them for the other woman. If your man decides to switch up his scent to something that you've never reconsidered or to something that you would never have thought he'll wear, chances are, the other woman considered that he wears it.

If you mate starts an arguament with you on a regular, and it has no meaning behind the argument and is just basically irrelevant, it is because he is trying to have a reason to go and visit the other woman. If your man, say for example is a hairy person....say on his chest, his legs, his arms and etc...and you one day notice that he felt that it was important to shave any of them area's....and you didn't have aproblem with the hairs on his body from the start, chances are, he's doing it for the other woman because she has said something about it. If your in the mood, and you have not seen your mate all day because of work and all of a sudden..he pulls an unusual over time and come's home and seems to be tired than he would normally be from working a 9-5 job or an 9am-8pm job, chances are, he got off of work early to spend time with that other woman.

If you guys share an bank account, and you keep notes on how much you spend and what you've bought. and you normally know the amount your mate will spend on just his self alone, and you notice a big dent in the shared account that you guys have, chances are, he's spending it on the other woman. Now, if your mate decides to do something for you on a special day/holiday and he bought you gifts an etc..but you find a receit to a gift that you did not receive, do not hold back on asking questions because chances are, he bought that extra gift for the other woman.

Ladies, do not sleep on your mate stepping out on you. pay attention to the sign's and dont let him get away with it. you may love your mate to no need but do love suppose to hurt?!?!?.....

Be Smart Ladies!