Monday, November 17, 2008

Self Respect, Is It Important To You?


How far do one plan to go just to prove that your accepted in another persons life? Is it worth degrading yourself? Being labeled something you know your not? Well some just go that far.

Sometimes in relationships, people tend to forget who they once were. Without taking this subject off to something totally different, I just want to say that a woman have the power to be more than what a man may label her to be.

I seen a couple that was very open in they relationship and the openness of the relationship made me question the woman's character alone. Now when your feeling someone, you like to be able to be out in the open with how you may feel for one another which may require some hugging, kissing(but not to passionate) every once in a while. But then it becomes a problem when private parts are cuffed and held tightly as if you lost it to a game of spades with someone.

Let me elaborate a little further. The couple that I was talking about in the beginning looked to be a young couple and the guy was really aggressive toward his girl friend that was very disrespectful toward her and any other woman because he was the definition to a lot of woman answers out here that questions on how men view us as woman. And it is, whats between the legs is what it all boils down to. Like the photo I have above, the guy was standing behind her but had something occupying one hand and his other was occupying her private part. Gripping it like it was some type of new fur he won at an auction!

To her, she seemed to be enjoying it because she was all smiles like, "How YOU doing" and that was not where it was at. I mean seriously ladies. You have the power to say what you like and what you don't like. Use your voice. Even if you do like it at that time but at least have some respect for yourself enough to say, "Baby, we out in public. Can we save for later on when we are alone". It will work wonders. If a man can't respect your wishes then he has no respect for you at all.

Now being young is not an excuse and that's what she think is probably the in thing and yada, yada, yada and it's what they see on T.V.......B.S....a person is old enough to know that behavior like that is degrading to self alone.

Have some DIGNITY Ladies!




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