!Song Of The Day!

This is my Song Of the Day! I found this song by just browsing on YouTube and I fell in love with it the first time I heard it. it's Called "Pull Ya Hair" by the one and ONLY King of R&B Kelz!

Enjoy :)

Have You Ever Wondered??........

Have you ever wondered if your mate was cheating on you? have you ever wondered, where did he spend his day, besides work,and comes home being so tired.......so tired that he has no time for you? If you have wondered those things, what is the first thing that come's to mind?

Most ladies will come up with the conclusion that her mate is indeed cheating. and I say that if your intution tells you that something is fishy going on, you follow that intuition because it will never fail you. all woman want the perfect relationship with they're spouse and to be able to live happily ever after like the fairy tale. but, unfortunately, some people don't get to live that fairy tale. no one gets to live that fairy tale, even if the mate isn't cheating or not.

When it come's down to trusting your mate, you have to trust them completely. without assumptions. because without trust....what do you have? and that answer will deflect like an empty box with nothing coming out. it takes a lot of work, to build trust within a relationship with some people. but for most, trust is invited without question. an old myth of mine still come's up every once in a while. if you trust a man a little too much, they are cheating. if you dont trust a man, they are not cheating. or maybe you just trust him, but don't let him know that you trust him. if you let him know that you DO trust, he may be tempted.

If you do wonder if your man is cheating, here are a few clues to go by. If your man, switches up his underware and by something out of the ordinary....let's say that your mate wears nothing but boxers, but one day, he decides to go out and buy more than one pack of briefs...without you mentioning the change, chances are, he's getting them for the other woman. If your man decides to switch up his scent to something that you've never reconsidered or to something that you would never have thought he'll wear, chances are, the other woman considered that he wears it.

If you mate starts an arguament with you on a regular, and it has no meaning behind the argument and is just basically irrelevant, it is because he is trying to have a reason to go and visit the other woman. If your man, say for example is a hairy person....say on his chest, his legs, his arms and etc...and you one day notice that he felt that it was important to shave any of them area's....and you didn't have aproblem with the hairs on his body from the start, chances are, he's doing it for the other woman because she has said something about it. If your in the mood, and you have not seen your mate all day because of work and all of a sudden..he pulls an unusual over time and come's home and seems to be tired than he would normally be from working a 9-5 job or an 9am-8pm job, chances are, he got off of work early to spend time with that other woman.

If you guys share an bank account, and you keep notes on how much you spend and what you've bought. and you normally know the amount your mate will spend on just his self alone, and you notice a big dent in the shared account that you guys have, chances are, he's spending it on the other woman. Now, if your mate decides to do something for you on a special day/holiday and he bought you gifts an etc..but you find a receit to a gift that you did not receive, do not hold back on asking questions because chances are, he bought that extra gift for the other woman.

Ladies, do not sleep on your mate stepping out on you. pay attention to the sign's and dont let him get away with it. you may love your mate to no need but do love suppose to hurt?!?!?.....

Be Smart Ladies!

Just A Test 2

Ok, so now I've seen that everything has spaces using the HTML

Now I'm going to switch back over to Compose and see if the spaces will be visible


This is the compose

testing, testing 1,2.....

Bye now :)

Just A Test....

I'm typing and I've been using the Compose part of the post. and for some reason I can not use my space bar...everything is close together and that erks me something awful so now I'm going to switch over to the HTML and see if I can use my space bar there


This is the hot mail

Testing,Testing one two........

bye now :)

I'm Suppose To Be YOUR WIFE!!!!!!

This is an image from my FAVORITE new movie, "Why Did I Get Married". Tyler Perry know that he knows how to put a good movie together. I've seen the play and it was so, so. but the movie covers all of that. he also had some amazing cast members in the movie. people such as Janet Jackson, Malik Yoba.......well, I'm sure that you've seen the movie so you know who played in it(not to mention that I forgot the names of the other cast members..LOL!)

But I wanted to touch a few things that's in this movie that people are really going through in real life. let's take Jill Scott's character for example....well for this post period. now, as in real life situations, I'm pretty sure that when he(Mike) married this woman(Sheila) she had a few pounds on her to begin with and he was attracted to her then...which was in college and now all of a sudden, after ten years, you are no longer attracted to the woman that you married?..........your WIFE!?!!! it is really sad. if you feel that your wife does not turn you on in such ways anymore, why let the relationship continue and head for disaster?

The part that got me the most was when they were on the airplane and she invited her friend along........now LADIES dont EVER, EVER, EVER bring another woman around your man. especially if her physical appearance is more attractive than yours(which I will talk about later) now, she made it seem as if she was really hurt that sheila husband prefered to sit next to her, other than his wife in which she had to sit in another seat in fron t of them in which she was "to big" and making another flighter uncomfortable. along those lines, an flight attendant comes and tell her that a woman of her size has to pay for, not one but two seats in order to continue on her flight. the husband than gets really bold with her and it ticked me off so damn bad that I wished that I could have smacked him through the T.V screen.

So she ended up driving all the way to the mountains where all the friends are suppose to meet up. NOW LADIES don't you know that a girl like me would have SET IT OFF on that plane!?!.....I' 'am your wife and you got the audacity to hand me my bag and tell me that you will meet me at the cabin?....no way in hell that would have happened. and you and my "suppose to be friend" ride the damn plane there?!!.....no way in HELL! just because god made you a certain way does not give a person a right to treat you like poop on a sidewalk. some people cant help the way they are shaped and it is hard to loose the weight. but people who are not going through such things don't understand that much. and by him being her husband, he should have been able to help her out through it.

And the sad thing is, people are really going through stuff like that in they marriage/relationship in real life..... afraid to leave because they think that don't no one else want them because of they shape.. and by your s/o some what accepting you, you think that he is all that you could get. that is not true. don't ever think that you have to continue to be with a guy who will degrade you in every aspect all because you think that it's impossible to find someone who will lift you in the aspect in which your husband forgot to lift you in! if you have did all that you could do to make your marriage/relationship work, but he still finds no respect for you, then it is time to pack up and leave. don't sit around and wait for you to find out the bad news that he has had sex with your friend in order to leave. leave when he has no respect for you.

And that's another thing. bringing these skanky ass women around your men. dont trust no one around your man. especailly if that woman is more attractive than you and the key thing of it all......IF SHE IS SINGLE! don't do that. your man will get tempted to test the waters and by this woman being a single bird, she will do whatever she can to try and get what you WERE getting. I don't care if this man took good care of you(in which this was Sheila's case)you do not have to go through that. leave before the situation gets worst. Even though it took Sheila a minute to see thethings that were blind to her....when her friend Angela let it all out(I heart Angela by the way)she left with a bang, meet a nice man, shed some pounds and re-married. see, when a man loses some one that was very dear to them, they do not realize it until they are actually gone out of they life. and thats how Mike was when he seen her again for the first time in years. and she was glowing and happy....LOL! I loved that part. but Ladies, keep your head up and remain dominant. there is nothing like a good strong woman. :)

The Other Side Of The Family....

My photo may look a little bit tacky but hey, what can you say, I'm a beginner with this computer stuff. just getting familiar with my miss paint *giggle* .....well, I'm not quite a "beginner" per se but learning to use certain programs on the computer s what I'm a beginner at.(edited photo)

So anyway, this topic today is concerning Family from the other side. as in your S/O family members and/or siblings as well as in parents. how do you cope with them? or just get in good with the family period? it's a hard thing to do when you first enter a relationship. it will not be easy at the start but if your a good communicater, then everything should turn out just fine.

When it came to me meeting my s/o's side of the family, it was an awkward situation and some things happened during the time of me meeting them. my significant other has 2 siblings...1 brother and one sister. before actually meeting the sister for the first time, I talked to her over the phone first. and we also bumped heads over the phone( how could that happen...LOL!) but it did happen. all over her brother and some true facts that she did not have any idea about until I had to put her in her place. I don't know who she THOUGHT that she was talking to, but she knew that I was not the one to be sending threats to. I mean it was all type of talk about her wanting to come to my place of residence and thought that she would actually be able to whoop my ass...LOL! which was funny to me from the beginning. so I told the gilr that if she thought that she was THAT bad, then bring your self up here and see what happens..

So eventually after talking over the differences, we became cool with one another. to a certain extent. I still dont trust the chick and it's some type of jealousy isues going on. not from me, but from her for some reason. I meet the mother once in my life. she even stayed at our apartment for a little while but we no longer speak to one another for other issues that took place. and I'm the type of person that does not kiss anyone's ass...I don't care who they may be or who they are related to. as long as she stay on her side of the fence and don't interfere with my life, we all good. far as the brother, I meet him only once in my life and that was maybe 5 months after I gave birth to my s/o first son. we did't conversate, I meet him and let him spend time with his brother. but we have talked over the phone maybe twice concerning his niece and nephews. other than that. they stay where they are and I stay where I 'am.

However, you got some families that actually gets along well with they're s/o's side of the family and I think that thats a good thing. but I look at it like this. at the end of the day, you are not having sex with your s/o's family and you are not entitled to do anything with yiur s/o's side of the family. bottom line, you are not put on this earth to make them happy nor like you. as long as you and your s/o is happy.....that is all that matters at the end of the day. you DO NOT owe his family a damn THANG!! so keep that in mind when dealing with the other side of the family. if it does not work out for you, don't let it sweat you. if it works out, then fine..you all will live a happy life.

50 Cent and Fat Joe Still Beefing?!

50 Cent has been labelled a "coward" by rapper Fat Joe.
The 'Candy Shop' star - who famously survived being shot nine times at close range in 2000 - is a "punk a** motherf***er" who is too scared to leave his home, according to his hip-hop rival.
Fat Joe, real name Joseph Cartagena, ranted to website Complex.com: "He got shot by people who he knows and he doesn't do nothing about it. He gets criticised by people like Ja Rule, little Ja Rule, and he never even fought him one on one. He's going to come f**k with Fat Joe? Are you serious? He still don't leave his house.

"He's looking for attention, I'm gonna diss him. I'm gonna tell him to suck my d**k, everything you can think. I'm gonna tell him that. What does he want out of me? He's gonna tell me, 'Oh, Fat Joe, you're a sucka', and I'm gonna be like, 'Suck my d**k you punk a** motherf***er."

The two rap stars have been engaged in a war of words since the video for 50's 2005 hit 'Piggy Bank' featured an animated boxing match between the pair which ended with a cartoon Fat Joe being badly beaten.
Joe responded with the song 'F**k 50' in which he dubbed him "the fakest gangster around".
Their feud was reignited last month when 50 said he would like to "eliminate" Joe from the "rap game" on US TV show 'Rap City'.

The 'Lean Back' rapper responded by branding 50 a "clown", on the same programme the following week.
On his new song 'Southside Nigga (I'm Leavin')' 50 threatens to put Joe's "brains on the floor".

When the hell is one of the two going to ever grow up! it's more than enough money out here for the both them. all that beefing aint even necessary. get that money together and stop bullshitting!

Valentines Day

Valentines Day is slowly approaching and with that being said, why does that day...February 15th have to be the day where your significant other have to do extra things for you?

I have had Conversation's with a lot of people concerning that day, and some may say that they will not want anything special for that day. and some will say that they want Diamond Rings and Roses and Candy/Cards an etc. Then you got some that will say they dont really care about that day because they dont have a mate for that day so basically, they just say forget Valentines Day (with the vulgar word beginning with F).

I use to look forward to getting gift's and candy for that "Special" day. but then I thought, 'why can't your(hyperthetically thinking) boyfriend/girlfriend make the day speacil 365 day's out of an year? why only one day?'. Valentines Day is suppose to be a day to where you can show your significant other how much you love them. but if you really take the time out from being greedy and wanting extra and glamorous things, and just take a look at the things you want and may get, are things that are materialistic!

Is that what a relationship is based upon? Materialistic things? I mean seriously. whatever happened to just spending quality time together? or just cooking a meal for your mate...making a nice warm bubble bath, rub/massage your significant other feet..massage their back and relaxing together and watching a blockbuster movie, conversate an etc. doing little things such as that is saying a whole lot. I have a friend, who told me that she wants a wedding ring for Valentines Day. but the problem with that is, her bf is not ready to marry. and the saddest part about that; he does not want to marry her! but she's willing to go all out in getting him the things that he wants be it: clothes, shoes and earrings. and I'm not talking about a dollar store earring, we talking R-Kelly diamond stud earring.

Dont take this one day... and go all out for you significant other... just because it'll look good for the both of you. or just to say what your s/o got for you. do it out of love. and if buying your mate things that cost a hundred dollars or more is showing them that you love them. then you need help! and with that being said, here is a love Quote of the day:

"People think love is an emotion. Love is good sense".

Martin Lawrence Interview On Movie "Welcome Home Roscoe Jenkins"

There comes a time in every raunchy comedian's career that they start making family movies. That time has come for Martin Lawrence. He eased us into it with the Big Momma movies, but Rebound and Open Season made it clear that he was doing things for the kids. His latest film, Welcome Home Roscoe Jenkins, is for the whole family. From children to veterans like James Earl Jones, with comedians like Mo'Nique and Mike Epps in between, the title character has to deal with his whole dysfunctional family on a reunion weekend.

Crave Online: How do you pick projects?

Martin Lawrence: Oh, the paycheck. The paycheck usually helps me know. No, if the script is good, but the paycheck helps though, I tell you. If the script is good, if it’s something I can read and I go, "You know what, if I do this film I could do justice to it." Then I try to get into it, and it’s something I try to put out there for you guys to see, and hopefully enjoy.

Crave Online: Do you think comedians all have dark places that it comes from?

Martin Lawrence: Right, but people that don’t make people laugh, you all sitting here. All of us could have very dark lives and everything else. Sometimes the pressure is all what you make it. If it’s something that you really love what you do, you get into what you do and you work hard to do just what it is you’re trying to accomplish and make people laugh. I don’t think you have to have a dark side to make people laugh.

Crave Online: Did you want to show a little bit of a dramatic side in this movie?

Martin Lawrence: Well, to be able to show a dramatic side in this movie for me was special for me because I don’t get an opportunity to do that very often. To be able to do it opposite James Earl Jones was just big. He showed me who the real vet was, because I thought I was doing something and he turned around with a tear in his eye saying, "Young man, can you do this?" And I couldn’t do that. I said, "Oh my God, I’m dealing with a real veteran here." But it was a lot of fun, so I was glad I had the opportunity to do that, and try anyway.

Crave Online: Do you have aspirations to do more full on drama?

Martin Lawrence: If the right script came along, I would love to try it. I haven’t had an opportunity because I never get sent those kind of scripts. They don’t think of me for them for whatever reason and I never get them so that’s why when you have something like Roscoe Jenkins that allows me in to have that kind of moment with James Earl Jones in the movie. I’m proud of that moment. But if I ever get the opportunity, I don’t even think it’ll be about the money. It’ll be about something that I feel that I could honestly bring to you guys to show you that side.

Crave Online: With a cast full of comedians, did you have to restrain yourselves for the rating? Is there any juicy stuff we'll see in bloopers?

Martin Lawrence: No, I’d be interested to see the bloopers they have because I don’t remember all of it, but I didn’t have to pull back on anything because I’ve been doing it long enough so I know when to press go and when to press stop. So I just enjoyed everybody else and what they had to deliver. Michael Epps is just so funny off-camera, his energy, his spirit, Cedric singing all the time when we weren’t doing anything, just his energy and spirit, and Mo’Nique is just hilarious, so the whole cast was just a joy and just wonderful to work with.

Crave Online: Did you feel like the leader because you’re the biggest name and most bankable star in the movie?

Martin Lawrence: I’ll gladly take that role, meaning the Chicago Bulls had to have Michael Jordan, right? Lakers got to have Kobe, Miami got to have Shaq, right? So I’ll take that, but you know what, I couldn’t have did it without my teammates. So we all support each other, we help each other, we’re one big cast, so we’re one, that’s it.

Can Usher Make a Comeback??

After this man, known as the R&B King after pulling the album Confessions, make a comeback for the year 2008? I'm worried because you know once a man get's married, be it a celebrity or just a man in general, they begin to lose focus and that makes the music sound unfocused *shrugs*

After a lot of talk about Usher coming out with a big bang in the year 2007, it was still talk's to whether he would sell as he did with "Confessions", because he has lost a lot of his fan base over the years. especially after he married Tamika.

Here's a song that was leaked last year from his "Infamous" album that was suppose to have dropped last year. listening to the song, I thought that it would end up being a nice song. although, I do admit to liking the beat to a certain extent. but as the song goes on, there is really to much going on in the song. you be the judge of that....



After listening to that, I must say that some where in there, my head started to hurt *pops a tylenol* I'm mad because I know that Usher could do waaaay better than that. but hey, who 'am I besides a fan?! he seems to not really care what we want these days. here's another song (sorry guys about having to leave the page, I'm still learning) the link is below...now before I put the link, I want to mention that I'm not feeling this song at all. all it take's is 5 seconds for me. and if it does not catch anything....to force me to move and snap my fingers in my seat, It aint a hit. but again, you guys be the judge.


http://www.zshare.net/audio/71511490546a51/

Flavor Flav gets MyNet Sitcom

Flavor Flav, the Public Enemy rapper turned “Flavor of Love” reality TV star, will make his sitcom debut with “Under One Roof,” a half-hour program scheduled to debut on MyNetworkTV this spring.
MyNet has ordered 13 episodes of the show from C to the B Productions and Qtopia Entertainment.
Flav will play an ex-convict who encounters a culture clash when he moves in with his wealthy, conservative brother, played by Kelly Perine.
C to the B’s Claude Brooks and Qtopia’s Darryl J. Quarles will produce. Among their credits are shows “Lyricist Lounge” and “The Fresh Prince of Bel Air,” and feature films “Big Momma’s House” and “Black Knight.”

I aint mad at cha Flav! Get that money Mayne!!

Brandy's Mom, Sonja Norwood Is Suing Kardashian's

Brandy's mom and manager Sonja Norwood is suing the Kardashian siblings for racking up over $120,000 in alleged illegal charges to her credit card.
In court documents obtained by PageSix.com, Sonja claims that Kim, who was Brandy's stylist in 2004, "was authorized to make one (and only one) purchase on behalf of [Sonja]," using her American Express card. Sonja goes on to allege that Kim shared her credit card number with siblings Khloe, Kourtney, and Robert Jr., leading to Kardashian shopping sprees at the Norwood's expense.
The allegedly unauthorized charges included $62,793.83 in 2006, and $57,841.82 2007, for a total of $120,635.82 dollars. The suit claims that thousands were even spent at the Kardashian's own stores, "Dash" and "Smooch."
documents:

HollyWood Change....

While I'm still Online and posting, I wanted to bring up the topic that was once talked about in the year 2007 for Keyshia Cole's Vibe issue in the month of December. Now, I must admit that when I first seen the cover of the magazine, I had to take a double look at the picture because I did not recognize Miss Keyshia Cole!

she looks more.......HOLLYWOOD!..that's the word that I'm searching for. she does NOT look like Keyshia Cole(I can't say it enough) Now these celebrities goes into the buisness as they self and end as a totally different person. from the look's all the way down to they attitude. However, it is a few that I could name that went into the big scene and still look the same and act the same. but, oh so many that I could name who does not look nor act the same.

Why do these celebrities, let these people get into they heads and visualize an image that is not for them..and they instantly take the bait?!....that's something that I would always wonder because even if you ask them, they will argue to differ and say that nothing about them have changed. but yet, everyone else will notice it but themselves. it's just sad to say the least. Keyshia is a Beautiful young lady, and don't really need all that extra to bring her looks out.

Then they always try to tell other people about how they should feel comfortable in they skin and blah, blah, blah but they can't even feel comfortable in they own skin. isn't that calling the kettle black??...Like my girl Vivica A. Fox. when she first became noticed, she was a normal person trying to make a way. now my girl done went and got a nose job and boob job and maybe even a face lift. LADIES....let your body age! If God wanted you to look young forever, he would have made us that way. If you have flaws, it's alright, no one is perfect. no matter how another person see's you, you are beatiful and we are all gods children.

Be comfortable as YOU are. not who or what THEY want you to be comfortable as.

Lyfe Jennings In Concert

The Ohio native, Lyfe Jennings, doesn't hesitate to give the audience what they want as he begins his set and opens with tracks from his new album, "Lyfe Change".

Hard to believe that at the young age of 14, Lyfe Jennings went to jail for arson. But as a result, the popular R&B crooner discovered his love for music behind bars and was released less than a decade later.

After his acclaimed self-titled debut album and his second album, "The Phoenix", Lyfe is back with is latest project, "Lyfe Change".

Robert Deniro and 50 Cent On Cover of Vibe

At the photo shoot, De Niro’s early, seated in a director’s chair, reading The New York Times. Looking over the top of his glasses, he asks without speaking, “Where’s Curtis?”

Curtis is stepping off the elevator, looking slim, not quite so superhero about the shoulders. As the bulbs begin to flash, the two of them are a little awkward at first—until Jackson picks up a bat, then a tiny toy pistol, at one point a toy Oscar. When they change into dress suits and ties, they loosen up. On the hanger, the look is very businessman, but the models transform the clothes quickly—to gangsta businessman. There is a menace to these two and an unpredictability. Real, imagined, or engrained by their personas, it’s what they bring, without half trying.

Robert Mario De Niro Jr. and Curtis James Jackson III. No matter what roles they play, no matter what else either of them do—have families, run businesses, write, direct, and produce—De Niro and Jackson are both gangsters. They’ve both made lives of portraying them—50 in real life, onstage, and onscreen, De Niro mostly onscreen—perfecting the pose and madness and especially the cold souls of men who have street mentalities, who have little to no remorse about living lives infused with violence and crime, murder and mayhem.

50 is more of a snitch than a gangsta!.......just my thoughts *giggle*

Message Board Mess Part 2

Now not to long ago, I made a post concerning the Internet and Message boards.........just browsing the internet period and being careful with who you put your information in the hands of. the next few clips that I'm about to post is actually something that took place a while ago, maybe like a week ago or so and it is some Beef, with some ladies that actually chatted on a Message Board and actually meet up with another and hung out. some crazy happened(As mentioned in my first post) and information was passed around and these two ladies are now beefing and can't really stand each other guts! put this in your memo people: Keep Internet people over the INTERNET!!!

So anyway, Ms. Alexyss Tylor some how got caught up in the middle of all this drama. it's two sides to every story but unfortunately, I dont have the audio for the other girl. So anyway, take a look at how the Internet could get involved into your personal life..

The beginning..



Part 2 of 1 internet threats...



Part 3 of 2 internet threats..



Part 4 of 3 internet threats...Now this is just to much. y'all have to watch yourself

Tatto's Here, Tatto's There, Tatto's Every Where!!!

I thought that this topic would be very Necessary at the moment. while browsing the net, I came upon this picture of Lil' Mo.... Never mind the fact that she's blowing a bubble looking sleepy, but look at all the Tatto's she has on her arm! I knew that she had Tatt's but I DID NOT know that she has that many. and all on one arm?!

Tatto's are cool to get for some people (not to mention how it'll look once you become of age and your skin start to sag) but I think for a woman to get tatto's, there should be a minimum to the amount you plan to get. now I know that's HER body and she could do what she pleases with HER body but all those tatto's are not cute at all. especially when you have them on parts of your body that will be viewable to the public eye.

There's this saying, 'do not trust a person with more than three tatto's' and you know what, I dont! because even though it's a "saying", it also happens to be true. I have a friend and a relative that has more than three tatto's and far as my family goes, I trust that person to a certain extent. family or not. and when I think about it, this family member do have some sneaky ways about them. and my friend who has more than three, has some sneaky ways about her as well. and again, I trust that person to a certain extent. LOL!

Ladies, when you get tatto's, make it classy not TACKY!

Beyonce Goes Dark

After sporting the honey blonde look since we all could remember, Beyonce finally decides to go dark! not only with her her hair, but it appears to be her clothes too. I hope that she keeps this darker look (the hair I mean) It really gives her a different look.

NewYork Is Really Teaching That Tailor Guy To Be a Man..

New York aka Tiffany Pollard and her most recent reality TV boyfriend Tailor Made (George Weisgerber) had a little domestic dispute recently while in public:
The two fought publicly all night at the opening of new 27th Street lounge Suzie Wong’s. After she pointed her finger in his face and yelled at him inside the club,the duo continued squabbling outside, where Weisgerber head-butted Pollard in the face.
LOL! He head Butted her!!...WOW! I guess she really is teaching old Tailor Maid(yes, I said Maid) how to become a real man.....Puh!

!Video Of The Day!

This is something that will be posted Randomly. I started it off with Mario latest song "Crying Out For Me" as my Video of the day. this next one will be Keyshia Cole's latest song.
Enjoy! :)

When Is It Time To Say I Do???

Taking that next step to Marriage is a BIG responsibilty. and not only that, it is also a life time commitment! And with that being said, When is it time to say I Do?!

Getting married to me is a big responsibility and a lot of thing's come's along with it. such as; your word to be with this person through sickness and in health and till death do you both part. Whatever dept or problems you may have in general become's your debt and problem as well. It's a lot that come's along with it instead of just getting all glamorous and pretty to show up at the church/alter just to say I do!

Now, the thing that I've been thinking about(and also had debatable conversations about) is people actually getting married without really getting to know a person first. being with someone for two weeks is NOT enough time to get to know a person that your caliming to be your significant other. being with someone for 3 months, again, is NOT enough time to get to know a person that your claiming to be your significant other.

Take the time out to really get to know a person first. especially if you have children involved. you have to get to know the person's background history first...before you want to get in the position to calling someone your wife or your husband. dont go playing the "married" card only because it sounds good and that's what society expect you to do. do it when you know it's right to do and when YOU feel it's right to do.

Flavor Of Love Preview

Flavor Flav is at it again with the third season of Flavor of Love. as we all know, this show is SCRIPT, but it will be entertaining to watch. take a look at the video to see what they will be up to this season.

Kimora Lee Simmons Fashion Week

For the first half of Kimora Lee Simmons' fashion show, it looked like her banker-type male models would have no dates they could bring home to their mothers.
The Friday night New York fashion Week preview of her Baby Phat collection put women in cropped jackets worn with tiny shorts and shiny leggings underneath. The female version of the three-piece suit was low-rise knickers with a belly-baring top and jacket and a woman's "tuxedo" was a ruffle-front blouse with tight overalls in a shiny black fabric.

Janet Jackson f/ Ciara Feed Back Remix

Now I'm not knocking Janet for the work that she do because I'm sure that she's putting a lot of work in what she do but this Feed back song REALLY needed some feed back bad..no pun intended. I'm not feeling the song and neither 'am I feeling the remix even though this remix has Ciara on it. The only props that I would give this song is that they fit well together Vocally. well, here's a link to the remix
http://www.zshare.net/audio/71038397a8df2c/

Meet The Browns...

Coming out on March 21 will be the latest film from Tyler Perry, 'Tyler Perry's Meet The Browns, which features the return to the big screen by Madea, the indomitable, law-breaking, fun-loving grandma , and the return of Angela Bassett in a leading role.
What is new this time around is the film is being a month after the Oscars have occurred.
Unlike his last film, 'Why Did I Get Married?', which was released in the fall last year, all of his other films ('Diary of a Mad Black Woman,' 'Madea's Family Reunion', and 'Daddy's Little Girls') have opened to great success during Oscar weekend.
Written and directed by Perry and based on his own play, the film also features David Mann, Tamela Mann, Jenifer Lewis, Lance Gross, Chloe Bailey, Mariana Tolbert, Rick Fox, Sofia Vergara, and Irma P. Hall.
The plot?

A single mother living in inner city Chicago, Brenda has been struggling for years to make ends meet and keep her three kids off the street.
But when she's laid off with no warning, she starts losing hope for the first time – until a letter arrives announcing the death of a father she's never met. Desperate for any kind of help, Brenda takes her family to Georgia for the funeral.
But nothing could have prepared her for the Browns, her father's fun-loving, crass Southern clan.
In a small-town world full of long afternoons and country fairs, Brenda struggles to get to know the family she never knew existed...and finds a brand new romance that just might change her life.

50 Cent, Bans Ciara Collaboration....

Rap superstar 50 Cent has banned Ciara from collaborating with Birdman and Lil' Wayne following a dispute with their record label.
The In Da Club hitmaker has asked R+B star Ciara not to record with artists at Cash Money Records following a feud between the label and G-Unit - 50 Cent's hip-hop group.
According to MediaTakeOut.com, the rapper - real name Curtis Jackson - is fuming after G-Unit star Young Buck signed for Cash Money Records.
And as revenge, Jackson has stopped a collaboration between Ciara and Cash Money Records founder Bryan 'Birdman' Williams.
A source tells the website, "Nobody affiliated with 50 Cent can be affiliated with his enemy."

What I want to know is; since when was Ciara a part of the "G-Unit" click? how the hell could he tell her to not collaborate with someone? dont he know he messing with money!?! forget all that other high school nonsence that he choose to dwell. if he like stopping his money just because he dont like a certain artist and dont want to record with them, the FINE! that's his buisness. but trying to tell someone else what to do. PLEASE! even though this story sort of came from mediatakeout.com they have been on they game lately.

Interview with Jassica Alba....

Although she can be seen most recently in the medical thriller "Awake," Jessica Alba said that there is little comparison between that movie and her upcoming horror film, "The Eye."" 'Awake' was more of a psychological thriller about someone who is dealing with a surgery and trust," she said. "['The Eye'] is about a girl who has a cornea transplant and takes on the psychic abilities of the donor and starts to see death before it happens.""The Eye," directed by David Moreau and Xavier Palud, is an American remake of the Chinese horror film "Gin gwai." The story is focused on Sydney Wells, a blind woman who can finally see after undergoing an operation. But in the process of gaining sight, Wells starts to see a death figure snatching away the living, throwing her into a world of confusion and fear.

"She doesn't understand because she's literally seeing for the first time, and now she's seeing horrible things," Alba said.Although this American remake is based on a foreign template, Alba said that the editor turned to classic American horror flicks for inspiration, citing "The Haunting" and "The Changeling" as well as "Jacob's Ladder" and "The Shining" as reference points. Alba is no stranger to horror films, naming "Psycho," "The Birds" and "Nightmare on Elm Street" as some of her favorites."I think everyone tried to infuse as much of those films as possible," she said, noting that the American version of the film is "more of a ghost story than it is a gore fest.""[The concept of ghosts] is more part of the [Eastern] culture," she said. "They just have a different mentality about it. In Western culture, people think you're absolutely nuts if you believe in ghosts or see ghosts. So we dealt with ghosts in this film similarly."In preparing for her role as the optically-cursed Wells, Alba fully dedicated herself to understanding what it is like to be visually impaired by visiting blind orientation centers in Los Angeles and New Mexico.

She learned how to read Braille, practiced walking with a cane and put labels on every item in her home. Alba also spent time with a blind girl who has not been able to see since she was 2 years old.But even with all of her intensive research, Alba felt that it still differed from the actual experience while filming. "To be honest, it was quite claustrophobic when I started," Alba said. "I felt confined and sort of trapped. I had a few freak-outs. It took a while for me to get used to it.""The Eye" is based on the idea of cellular memory, a concept that purports that organ recipients adopt the characteristics of their donors. The idea may be a bit far-fetched, but Alba believes it has some merit. "It's scientifically proven," she said. "I actually met a guy this week who hated pasta, and after his liver transplant all he wants to eat, three nights a week, is pasta. He lost thirty pounds and didn't like going to theme parks, ever, and now he and his wife go on vacation and go on scary roller coasters. He found out that his donor was a 16-year-old boy who loved roller coasters and didn't like sweets." Although "The Eye" has its roots foreign cinema, Alba claims that her version has its own identity. "The Hong Kong version was more bitter than sweet in the end, and ours was definitely bittersweet," she said. "On the other hand, people didn't think [the main character] was so nuts, and some people were on her side. In our version, absolutely no one believed her, and they thought she'd lost it. We're really playing up the insanity."

R-Kelly being Sued for Canseling Concert.

R. Kelly has been sued by a concert promoter for canceling a Minneapolis concert because he had to appear in a Chicago courthouse, according to TMZ.com. The suit, filed by Nevada-based promoter Royalty Records in Atlanta District Court, claims that Kelly "never intended" to do the Target Center show, even though he took $120,000 up front for the gig; the Dec. 6 show with Ne-Yo and Keyshia Cole, among others, was at first rescheduled for Dec. 20, but on that day, Kelly was faced with threat of an arrest if he did not show up to his scheduled court date in Chicago.
The suit is seeking the $120,000 plus unspecified damages.
Kelly's current tour is going forward as the R&B crooner tries to keep working despite facing criminal charges stemming from his alleged sexual relationships with under-aged girls

Five woman killed in Chicago-area Store Shooting

TINLEY PARK, Illinois (Reuters) - Five women were shot and killed inside a clothing store at a suburban Chicago shopping center on Saturday in what police said appeared to be a robbery.
Police were searching for a lone gunman spotted outside the store by a witness, but said they had not identified him.
The victims were all found in the back of the Lane Bryant women's clothing store in an area not frequented by customers, Tinley Park Police Sgt. T.J. Grady told reporters.
It appeared to be a robbery that "went rather poorly," he added.
Grady declined to say whether the victims were customers or employees of the store, located at the Brookside Marketplace shopping center in a southwestern suburb of Chicago.
Police said they received a call at 10:44 a.m. CST reporting multiple gunshot victims inside the store.
The suspect had fled and they issued an alert for a man wearing black jeans, a black waist-length winter coat and a black knit cap, police said.
(Additional reporting by Michael Conlon and Chris Stebbins; Editing by Eric Beech)

Love Quote of the day...

"No one is too young for love, because love doesn't come from your mind, which knows your age, but from your heart, which knows no age."

Time to take a break for my Random Thoughts!

Have you ever sat back and wondered why you seem to have so many problem's in your relationship? or just people in general having problem's in they relationship period? that's also something that I've been wondering about for a long time. dont get me wrong, I'm not blinded by the things that men pull, I know about how men play the game but it's that one thing that I cant nip in the bud and that's why do they cheat!?! I've heard all the scenerio's to where a man want to try something different or the man might want a woman with a bigger chest or a bigger butt and etc but that does not answer my train of thoughts. it must not be the bigger ass, but nor chest because it was something about you that attracted him to you in the first place.

A man should be happy with the one that they are with. wouldn't you think so?! I mean, a man could be getting all that he want at home but will still have the audacity to go out and cheat with another woman. and who's to say if he is protecting his self and bringing you some kind of STD home from some nasty girl that he decide's to mess with! I just dont understand men. they... they get into relationship's with us woman and still want to play the field. if you want to play the field, spare us fella's that's all we ask. if you're only out looking for a sex partner, then you should let that woman know that instead of making her your "girl" or "woman" and then still play the field.

Then we got some ladies out here that also like's to play the field as well and would have a man at home that will not cheat. and ladies, respect yourself. because if you dont, no one else will. people will treat you the way that you portray yourself to be. then we want to get upset when a man call you out of your name, using names such as Hoe (not Whore because hoe is more below the whore status. which neither is good but hoe just sound nastier...even though it's an garden tool) but anyway, names such as Bust Down and Slut and etc....any name in the book that will make a woman feel low. ladies if you got a good man at home....and the same for the fella's, if you got a good woman at home, do right by that woman and do right by that man. if you feel that you dont want to be with just that one person, then dont get serious.

And it's the talk about love. what is love? if you love someone, you will not go out and still be searching. It's this guy that I know whom cheats on his woman but yet he will not let her go and just the thought of another man talking to her or even having sex with his woman bother's him. but he could go out and mess around and do whatever when he wants but, she cant. wake the hell up! you can not have your cake and eat it too. point blank. if your going to get into a relationship and call yourself being serious about it....then be just that and leave all that other mess for the birds!

Beyonce in the Top 10 with Doe!

She's beautiful, got a bangin' bod, a gorgeous voice and a loyal man. Ready to be sick? Beyonce also makes a truckload of dough. In fact, the R&B beauty made Forbes Magazine's list of the richest women in music this year, and she's in the Top 10.The list, called 'Cash Queens of Music,' also features big names like Gwen Stefani, Shakira and Mariah Carey, and takes into account not only the sweet moolah these leading ladies are making through CD sales and tours, but also their varied side projects including clothing and perfume lines.

I aint mad at you Bey! It's nice to see that she do know what to do with her money. unlike a few celeb's I know of but will not name ;)

!Video of the day!

Well, I wont necessarily say that it's the video of the day, I just LOVE this song! and I cant get enough of it. with his fine, sensational voice having self :)

Lil Mama f/ Chris Brown & T-Pain

This video put me in the mind of Michael Jackson and his little sister Janet! it's good to look up to the ones who opened the doors for them but I'm getting a little sick of it now.

Daddy to the Rescue

LOS ANGELES (Reuters) - A Los Angeles court on Friday placed the affairs of troubled pop singer Britney Spears under the temporary control of her father while she remains hospitalized under psychiatric care.
Superior Court public information officer Allan Parachini said the "temporary conservatorship" was in place until Monday afternoon, at which time a new hearing will take place. He said the court also issued a "civil harassment restraining order" against Spears' manager, Sam Lutfi.
The conservatorship cedes control over the singer's liquid assets, including her home, to Jamie Spears, who petitioned the court for control in an emergency hearing on Friday. Attorney Andrew Wallete shares conservator duties with Spears' dad.
With the court order, Jamie Spears now has the ability to supersede any other powers-of-attorney that may have been issued by the singer, cancel contracts she may have signed and bar people from visiting her in the Los Angeles area hospital.
Spears, 26, the former Disney child star and chart-topping singer, has seen her personal life spin out-of-control since she filed for divorce from ex-husband Kevin Federline in 2006.
Most recently, the Louisiana native has adopted a British accent, caroused around Hollywood Hills wearing pink wigs, and in early January was hospitalized for a mental evaluation after going into hysterics when Federline's representatives tried to retrieve their kids after a visit with Spears.
On Thursday of this week, Spears was again rushed to a Los Angeles area hospital in an ambulance, where she remains, and put under a three-day psychiatric hold.
To read more,click link below
http://in.reuters.com/article/entertainmentNews/idINIndia-31728520080202?pageNumber=2&virtualBrandChannel=0

You be the Judge!

Katie Holmes has dismissed claims that she was pregnant with ex-fiance Chris Klein's baby at the time of their split.

The Mad Money star began dating husband Tom Cruise within weeks of separating from the American Pie star in early 2005, after five years together.
After a whirlwind romance, Katie and Tom announced their engagement, and the couple welcomed baby daughter Suri in April 2006.
A close pal of Klein's recently told the National Enquirer that Klein had revealed to him that Katie was expecting his child.
The friend claimed: "Shortly after his (Klein's) relationship with Katie ended, Chris and I had a heart-to-heart.
"We were having dinner at Cafeteria, a restaurant in New York's Chelsea district, when Chris blurted out: 'Dude, you know I got Katie preggers.'
"There was a long silence. I realised Chris had said more than he had intended. My next thought was: 'What happened to the baby?' (But) from the look in Chris' eyes, I realised this was highly personal. I didn't want to probe any further."
A spokesperson for Katie insists there is no truth to the allegations, branding the Enquirer's story "false", reports MSNBC.

Britney Spears 'Lynn Rage

Britney Spears hysterically accused her mother of sleeping with her lover as she was admitted to hospital.
The 'Piece of Me' singer - who has been classed "G.D." (gravely disabled) by health care professionals at Los Angeles' UCLA Medical Center - screamed that Lynne "wanted to sleep with her boyfriend" as she was taken away in the early hours of yesterday morning (31.01.08).
Sources claim Britney raged: "The only reason she's admitting me is because she wants to be alone with her boyfriend! She wants to sleep with my boyfriend!!"
The 26-year-old singer didn't specify if she meant photographer Adnan Ghalib or her ex-husband Kevin Federline who Lynne has been in close contact with.
Hospital sources said Britney arrived at 2.15am but was not admitted until 4.15am as she was causing such a scene. They claim she was on Adderall - a stimulant used to treat Attention Deficit Disorder - and was taking up to 10 laxatives a day.
When she calmed down the 'Gimme More' singer talked about how much she misses her sons Sean Preston, two, and 16-month-old Jayden James.
The medical term G.D. means the patient is unable to take care of basic needs, including food, clothing or shelter. It is one of the criteria for involuntary commitment.
Meanwhile, Britney's 'manager' Sam Lutfi has accused Lynne of not caring about her daughter's condition.
In a text message sent to US TV show 'Access Hollywood' he wrote: "No. Her mother is not someone who cares about her daughter, she's only concerned with herself. Sad but true. She was too busy getting a manicure to come over yesterday, despite her daughter's pleas. Sad, very sad."
Lutfi also revealed he feels responsible for Britney and is the only person with her best interests at heart.
He said: "I feel like I have a moral obligation.
"You meet her and she cries, and she begs you not to turn on her. I have three sisters and I would do the same for any of them.
"Britney has never paid me, I have never sold any photos of her, and I have never accepted money from the media."

Marc Anthony has put a little pressure on wife Jennifer Lopez by revealing that he might miss the delivery of his baby because of work commitments.

The latin star has bizarrely scheduled concert in his native Puerto Rico next week - the same time when J.Lo is due to give birth in a New York hospital.In a new interview with Puerto Rican newspaper El Nuevo Dia, Anthony says he hopes his wife won't go into labour while he's working."I've been with her 24 hours a day, and I'm going to be away from her for just a few hours" said the 39-year-old. "She can't go into labour during that time."I mean, I'm praying that doesn't happen."Anthony insists he'll fufill his work commitments but return to New York immediately after the show.The singer didn't offer any more details about the impending birth, but reports Lopez had checked into hospital on Thursday appeared premature when the singer was spotted shopping for baby clothes at a recent mall.

Jennifer Lopez will wear a couture hospital gown when she gives birth.
The 'Do It Well' singer - who is expected to give birth to twins later this month - has had four pastel-coloured couture hospital gowns and a coordinating robe designed by dearjonnies.com to wear when she checks into hospital.
A source said: "J.Lo has spent her entire pregnancy wearing Roberto Cavelli designer maternity wear she had specially made. She would never let her stylish image go - not even when giving birth."
The 38-year-old 'Play' singer is expected to check into New York's North Shore University Medical Center, in Manhasset, to give birth via Caesarean section on February 14.
The hospital has reportedly prepared a luxury suite for the star and husband Marc Anthony, complete with soft furnishings, wooden flooring and giant flat screen TVs.
A source said: "The J.Lo room is a little more lavish than what you find in the average maternity ward."
The couple are believed to have chosen the names Max and Emme for the boy and girl twins, reportedly conceived using IVF treatment.

Despite being a huge Hollywood movie star, Will Smith hasn't forgotten his former music career as one half of DJ Jazzy Jeff and the Fresh Prince.
The I Am Legend actor is set to perform a couple of dates with his old friend this summer.
"Jeff and I perform a couple of times a year," he says. "We're going to go out there in July and we're checking out some places throughout the world to do some big shows. To circle back to that golden age of hip hop - we're planning some things."
For years, better known as the Fresh Prince from the hit TV show, Will has fond memories of the day people stopped referring to him as the character.
"On July 6 1996, when the Fresh Prince finished, and after Independence Day came out, that Monday was the first time that somebody called me Mr Smith," he says. "I'm like 'what the hell?' All through the Fresh Prince, it was, 'hey hey Fresh Prince, Fresh Prince'. But that morning when the box office numbers came out after Independence Day, people said 'good morning Mr Smith.' It was so bizarre."