Have you ever sat back and wondered why you seem to have so many problem's in your relationship? or just people in general having problem's in they relationship period? that's also something that I've been wondering about for a long time. dont get me wrong, I'm not blinded by the things that men pull, I know about how men play the game but it's that one thing that I cant nip in the bud and that's why do they cheat!?! I've heard all the scenerio's to where a man want to try something different or the man might want a woman with a bigger chest or a bigger butt and etc but that does not answer my train of thoughts. it must not be the bigger ass, but nor chest because it was something about you that attracted him to you in the first place.
A man should be happy with the one that they are with. wouldn't you think so?! I mean, a man could be getting all that he want at home but will still have the audacity to go out and cheat with another woman. and who's to say if he is protecting his self and bringing you some kind of STD home from some nasty girl that he decide's to mess with! I just dont understand men. they... they get into relationship's with us woman and still want to play the field. if you want to play the field, spare us fella's that's all we ask. if you're only out looking for a sex partner, then you should let that woman know that instead of making her your "girl" or "woman" and then still play the field.
Then we got some ladies out here that also like's to play the field as well and would have a man at home that will not cheat. and ladies, respect yourself. because if you dont, no one else will. people will treat you the way that you portray yourself to be. then we want to get upset when a man call you out of your name, using names such as Hoe (not Whore because hoe is more below the whore status. which neither is good but hoe just sound nastier...even though it's an garden tool) but anyway, names such as Bust Down and Slut and etc....any name in the book that will make a woman feel low. ladies if you got a good man at home....and the same for the fella's, if you got a good woman at home, do right by that woman and do right by that man. if you feel that you dont want to be with just that one person, then dont get serious.
And it's the talk about love. what is love? if you love someone, you will not go out and still be searching. It's this guy that I know whom cheats on his woman but yet he will not let her go and just the thought of another man talking to her or even having sex with his woman bother's him. but he could go out and mess around and do whatever when he wants but, she cant. wake the hell up! you can not have your cake and eat it too. point blank. if your going to get into a relationship and call yourself being serious about it....then be just that and leave all that other mess for the birds!
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