Just A Test....

I'm typing and I've been using the Compose part of the post. and for some reason I can not use my space bar...everything is close together and that erks me something awful so now I'm going to switch over to the HTML and see if I can use my space bar there


This is the hot mail

Testing,Testing one two........

bye now :)

I'm Suppose To Be YOUR WIFE!!!!!!

This is an image from my FAVORITE new movie, "Why Did I Get Married". Tyler Perry know that he knows how to put a good movie together. I've seen the play and it was so, so. but the movie covers all of that. he also had some amazing cast members in the movie. people such as Janet Jackson, Malik Yoba.......well, I'm sure that you've seen the movie so you know who played in it(not to mention that I forgot the names of the other cast members..LOL!)

But I wanted to touch a few things that's in this movie that people are really going through in real life. let's take Jill Scott's character for example....well for this post period. now, as in real life situations, I'm pretty sure that when he(Mike) married this woman(Sheila) she had a few pounds on her to begin with and he was attracted to her then...which was in college and now all of a sudden, after ten years, you are no longer attracted to the woman that you married?..........your WIFE!?!!! it is really sad. if you feel that your wife does not turn you on in such ways anymore, why let the relationship continue and head for disaster?

The part that got me the most was when they were on the airplane and she invited her friend along........now LADIES dont EVER, EVER, EVER bring another woman around your man. especially if her physical appearance is more attractive than yours(which I will talk about later) now, she made it seem as if she was really hurt that sheila husband prefered to sit next to her, other than his wife in which she had to sit in another seat in fron t of them in which she was "to big" and making another flighter uncomfortable. along those lines, an flight attendant comes and tell her that a woman of her size has to pay for, not one but two seats in order to continue on her flight. the husband than gets really bold with her and it ticked me off so damn bad that I wished that I could have smacked him through the T.V screen.

So she ended up driving all the way to the mountains where all the friends are suppose to meet up. NOW LADIES don't you know that a girl like me would have SET IT OFF on that plane!?!.....I' 'am your wife and you got the audacity to hand me my bag and tell me that you will meet me at the cabin?....no way in hell that would have happened. and you and my "suppose to be friend" ride the damn plane there?!!.....no way in HELL! just because god made you a certain way does not give a person a right to treat you like poop on a sidewalk. some people cant help the way they are shaped and it is hard to loose the weight. but people who are not going through such things don't understand that much. and by him being her husband, he should have been able to help her out through it.

And the sad thing is, people are really going through stuff like that in they marriage/relationship in real life..... afraid to leave because they think that don't no one else want them because of they shape.. and by your s/o some what accepting you, you think that he is all that you could get. that is not true. don't ever think that you have to continue to be with a guy who will degrade you in every aspect all because you think that it's impossible to find someone who will lift you in the aspect in which your husband forgot to lift you in! if you have did all that you could do to make your marriage/relationship work, but he still finds no respect for you, then it is time to pack up and leave. don't sit around and wait for you to find out the bad news that he has had sex with your friend in order to leave. leave when he has no respect for you.

And that's another thing. bringing these skanky ass women around your men. dont trust no one around your man. especailly if that woman is more attractive than you and the key thing of it all......IF SHE IS SINGLE! don't do that. your man will get tempted to test the waters and by this woman being a single bird, she will do whatever she can to try and get what you WERE getting. I don't care if this man took good care of you(in which this was Sheila's case)you do not have to go through that. leave before the situation gets worst. Even though it took Sheila a minute to see thethings that were blind to her....when her friend Angela let it all out(I heart Angela by the way)she left with a bang, meet a nice man, shed some pounds and re-married. see, when a man loses some one that was very dear to them, they do not realize it until they are actually gone out of they life. and thats how Mike was when he seen her again for the first time in years. and she was glowing and happy....LOL! I loved that part. but Ladies, keep your head up and remain dominant. there is nothing like a good strong woman. :)

The Other Side Of The Family....

My photo may look a little bit tacky but hey, what can you say, I'm a beginner with this computer stuff. just getting familiar with my miss paint *giggle* .....well, I'm not quite a "beginner" per se but learning to use certain programs on the computer s what I'm a beginner at.(edited photo)

So anyway, this topic today is concerning Family from the other side. as in your S/O family members and/or siblings as well as in parents. how do you cope with them? or just get in good with the family period? it's a hard thing to do when you first enter a relationship. it will not be easy at the start but if your a good communicater, then everything should turn out just fine.

When it came to me meeting my s/o's side of the family, it was an awkward situation and some things happened during the time of me meeting them. my significant other has 2 siblings...1 brother and one sister. before actually meeting the sister for the first time, I talked to her over the phone first. and we also bumped heads over the phone( how could that happen...LOL!) but it did happen. all over her brother and some true facts that she did not have any idea about until I had to put her in her place. I don't know who she THOUGHT that she was talking to, but she knew that I was not the one to be sending threats to. I mean it was all type of talk about her wanting to come to my place of residence and thought that she would actually be able to whoop my ass...LOL! which was funny to me from the beginning. so I told the gilr that if she thought that she was THAT bad, then bring your self up here and see what happens..

So eventually after talking over the differences, we became cool with one another. to a certain extent. I still dont trust the chick and it's some type of jealousy isues going on. not from me, but from her for some reason. I meet the mother once in my life. she even stayed at our apartment for a little while but we no longer speak to one another for other issues that took place. and I'm the type of person that does not kiss anyone's ass...I don't care who they may be or who they are related to. as long as she stay on her side of the fence and don't interfere with my life, we all good. far as the brother, I meet him only once in my life and that was maybe 5 months after I gave birth to my s/o first son. we did't conversate, I meet him and let him spend time with his brother. but we have talked over the phone maybe twice concerning his niece and nephews. other than that. they stay where they are and I stay where I 'am.

However, you got some families that actually gets along well with they're s/o's side of the family and I think that thats a good thing. but I look at it like this. at the end of the day, you are not having sex with your s/o's family and you are not entitled to do anything with yiur s/o's side of the family. bottom line, you are not put on this earth to make them happy nor like you. as long as you and your s/o is happy.....that is all that matters at the end of the day. you DO NOT owe his family a damn THANG!! so keep that in mind when dealing with the other side of the family. if it does not work out for you, don't let it sweat you. if it works out, then fine..you all will live a happy life.

50 Cent and Fat Joe Still Beefing?!

50 Cent has been labelled a "coward" by rapper Fat Joe.
The 'Candy Shop' star - who famously survived being shot nine times at close range in 2000 - is a "punk a** motherf***er" who is too scared to leave his home, according to his hip-hop rival.
Fat Joe, real name Joseph Cartagena, ranted to website Complex.com: "He got shot by people who he knows and he doesn't do nothing about it. He gets criticised by people like Ja Rule, little Ja Rule, and he never even fought him one on one. He's going to come f**k with Fat Joe? Are you serious? He still don't leave his house.

"He's looking for attention, I'm gonna diss him. I'm gonna tell him to suck my d**k, everything you can think. I'm gonna tell him that. What does he want out of me? He's gonna tell me, 'Oh, Fat Joe, you're a sucka', and I'm gonna be like, 'Suck my d**k you punk a** motherf***er."

The two rap stars have been engaged in a war of words since the video for 50's 2005 hit 'Piggy Bank' featured an animated boxing match between the pair which ended with a cartoon Fat Joe being badly beaten.
Joe responded with the song 'F**k 50' in which he dubbed him "the fakest gangster around".
Their feud was reignited last month when 50 said he would like to "eliminate" Joe from the "rap game" on US TV show 'Rap City'.

The 'Lean Back' rapper responded by branding 50 a "clown", on the same programme the following week.
On his new song 'Southside Nigga (I'm Leavin')' 50 threatens to put Joe's "brains on the floor".

When the hell is one of the two going to ever grow up! it's more than enough money out here for the both them. all that beefing aint even necessary. get that money together and stop bullshitting!

Valentines Day

Valentines Day is slowly approaching and with that being said, why does that day...February 15th have to be the day where your significant other have to do extra things for you?

I have had Conversation's with a lot of people concerning that day, and some may say that they will not want anything special for that day. and some will say that they want Diamond Rings and Roses and Candy/Cards an etc. Then you got some that will say they dont really care about that day because they dont have a mate for that day so basically, they just say forget Valentines Day (with the vulgar word beginning with F).

I use to look forward to getting gift's and candy for that "Special" day. but then I thought, 'why can't your(hyperthetically thinking) boyfriend/girlfriend make the day speacil 365 day's out of an year? why only one day?'. Valentines Day is suppose to be a day to where you can show your significant other how much you love them. but if you really take the time out from being greedy and wanting extra and glamorous things, and just take a look at the things you want and may get, are things that are materialistic!

Is that what a relationship is based upon? Materialistic things? I mean seriously. whatever happened to just spending quality time together? or just cooking a meal for your mate...making a nice warm bubble bath, rub/massage your significant other feet..massage their back and relaxing together and watching a blockbuster movie, conversate an etc. doing little things such as that is saying a whole lot. I have a friend, who told me that she wants a wedding ring for Valentines Day. but the problem with that is, her bf is not ready to marry. and the saddest part about that; he does not want to marry her! but she's willing to go all out in getting him the things that he wants be it: clothes, shoes and earrings. and I'm not talking about a dollar store earring, we talking R-Kelly diamond stud earring.

Dont take this one day... and go all out for you significant other... just because it'll look good for the both of you. or just to say what your s/o got for you. do it out of love. and if buying your mate things that cost a hundred dollars or more is showing them that you love them. then you need help! and with that being said, here is a love Quote of the day:

"People think love is an emotion. Love is good sense".

Martin Lawrence Interview On Movie "Welcome Home Roscoe Jenkins"

There comes a time in every raunchy comedian's career that they start making family movies. That time has come for Martin Lawrence. He eased us into it with the Big Momma movies, but Rebound and Open Season made it clear that he was doing things for the kids. His latest film, Welcome Home Roscoe Jenkins, is for the whole family. From children to veterans like James Earl Jones, with comedians like Mo'Nique and Mike Epps in between, the title character has to deal with his whole dysfunctional family on a reunion weekend.

Crave Online: How do you pick projects?

Martin Lawrence: Oh, the paycheck. The paycheck usually helps me know. No, if the script is good, but the paycheck helps though, I tell you. If the script is good, if it’s something I can read and I go, "You know what, if I do this film I could do justice to it." Then I try to get into it, and it’s something I try to put out there for you guys to see, and hopefully enjoy.

Crave Online: Do you think comedians all have dark places that it comes from?

Martin Lawrence: Right, but people that don’t make people laugh, you all sitting here. All of us could have very dark lives and everything else. Sometimes the pressure is all what you make it. If it’s something that you really love what you do, you get into what you do and you work hard to do just what it is you’re trying to accomplish and make people laugh. I don’t think you have to have a dark side to make people laugh.

Crave Online: Did you want to show a little bit of a dramatic side in this movie?

Martin Lawrence: Well, to be able to show a dramatic side in this movie for me was special for me because I don’t get an opportunity to do that very often. To be able to do it opposite James Earl Jones was just big. He showed me who the real vet was, because I thought I was doing something and he turned around with a tear in his eye saying, "Young man, can you do this?" And I couldn’t do that. I said, "Oh my God, I’m dealing with a real veteran here." But it was a lot of fun, so I was glad I had the opportunity to do that, and try anyway.

Crave Online: Do you have aspirations to do more full on drama?

Martin Lawrence: If the right script came along, I would love to try it. I haven’t had an opportunity because I never get sent those kind of scripts. They don’t think of me for them for whatever reason and I never get them so that’s why when you have something like Roscoe Jenkins that allows me in to have that kind of moment with James Earl Jones in the movie. I’m proud of that moment. But if I ever get the opportunity, I don’t even think it’ll be about the money. It’ll be about something that I feel that I could honestly bring to you guys to show you that side.

Crave Online: With a cast full of comedians, did you have to restrain yourselves for the rating? Is there any juicy stuff we'll see in bloopers?

Martin Lawrence: No, I’d be interested to see the bloopers they have because I don’t remember all of it, but I didn’t have to pull back on anything because I’ve been doing it long enough so I know when to press go and when to press stop. So I just enjoyed everybody else and what they had to deliver. Michael Epps is just so funny off-camera, his energy, his spirit, Cedric singing all the time when we weren’t doing anything, just his energy and spirit, and Mo’Nique is just hilarious, so the whole cast was just a joy and just wonderful to work with.

Crave Online: Did you feel like the leader because you’re the biggest name and most bankable star in the movie?

Martin Lawrence: I’ll gladly take that role, meaning the Chicago Bulls had to have Michael Jordan, right? Lakers got to have Kobe, Miami got to have Shaq, right? So I’ll take that, but you know what, I couldn’t have did it without my teammates. So we all support each other, we help each other, we’re one big cast, so we’re one, that’s it.

Can Usher Make a Comeback??

After this man, known as the R&B King after pulling the album Confessions, make a comeback for the year 2008? I'm worried because you know once a man get's married, be it a celebrity or just a man in general, they begin to lose focus and that makes the music sound unfocused *shrugs*

After a lot of talk about Usher coming out with a big bang in the year 2007, it was still talk's to whether he would sell as he did with "Confessions", because he has lost a lot of his fan base over the years. especially after he married Tamika.

Here's a song that was leaked last year from his "Infamous" album that was suppose to have dropped last year. listening to the song, I thought that it would end up being a nice song. although, I do admit to liking the beat to a certain extent. but as the song goes on, there is really to much going on in the song. you be the judge of that....



After listening to that, I must say that some where in there, my head started to hurt *pops a tylenol* I'm mad because I know that Usher could do waaaay better than that. but hey, who 'am I besides a fan?! he seems to not really care what we want these days. here's another song (sorry guys about having to leave the page, I'm still learning) the link is below...now before I put the link, I want to mention that I'm not feeling this song at all. all it take's is 5 seconds for me. and if it does not catch anything....to force me to move and snap my fingers in my seat, It aint a hit. but again, you guys be the judge.


http://www.zshare.net/audio/71511490546a51/

Flavor Flav gets MyNet Sitcom

Flavor Flav, the Public Enemy rapper turned “Flavor of Love” reality TV star, will make his sitcom debut with “Under One Roof,” a half-hour program scheduled to debut on MyNetworkTV this spring.
MyNet has ordered 13 episodes of the show from C to the B Productions and Qtopia Entertainment.
Flav will play an ex-convict who encounters a culture clash when he moves in with his wealthy, conservative brother, played by Kelly Perine.
C to the B’s Claude Brooks and Qtopia’s Darryl J. Quarles will produce. Among their credits are shows “Lyricist Lounge” and “The Fresh Prince of Bel Air,” and feature films “Big Momma’s House” and “Black Knight.”

I aint mad at cha Flav! Get that money Mayne!!

Brandy's Mom, Sonja Norwood Is Suing Kardashian's

Brandy's mom and manager Sonja Norwood is suing the Kardashian siblings for racking up over $120,000 in alleged illegal charges to her credit card.
In court documents obtained by PageSix.com, Sonja claims that Kim, who was Brandy's stylist in 2004, "was authorized to make one (and only one) purchase on behalf of [Sonja]," using her American Express card. Sonja goes on to allege that Kim shared her credit card number with siblings Khloe, Kourtney, and Robert Jr., leading to Kardashian shopping sprees at the Norwood's expense.
The allegedly unauthorized charges included $62,793.83 in 2006, and $57,841.82 2007, for a total of $120,635.82 dollars. The suit claims that thousands were even spent at the Kardashian's own stores, "Dash" and "Smooch."
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HollyWood Change....

While I'm still Online and posting, I wanted to bring up the topic that was once talked about in the year 2007 for Keyshia Cole's Vibe issue in the month of December. Now, I must admit that when I first seen the cover of the magazine, I had to take a double look at the picture because I did not recognize Miss Keyshia Cole!

she looks more.......HOLLYWOOD!..that's the word that I'm searching for. she does NOT look like Keyshia Cole(I can't say it enough) Now these celebrities goes into the buisness as they self and end as a totally different person. from the look's all the way down to they attitude. However, it is a few that I could name that went into the big scene and still look the same and act the same. but, oh so many that I could name who does not look nor act the same.

Why do these celebrities, let these people get into they heads and visualize an image that is not for them..and they instantly take the bait?!....that's something that I would always wonder because even if you ask them, they will argue to differ and say that nothing about them have changed. but yet, everyone else will notice it but themselves. it's just sad to say the least. Keyshia is a Beautiful young lady, and don't really need all that extra to bring her looks out.

Then they always try to tell other people about how they should feel comfortable in they skin and blah, blah, blah but they can't even feel comfortable in they own skin. isn't that calling the kettle black??...Like my girl Vivica A. Fox. when she first became noticed, she was a normal person trying to make a way. now my girl done went and got a nose job and boob job and maybe even a face lift. LADIES....let your body age! If God wanted you to look young forever, he would have made us that way. If you have flaws, it's alright, no one is perfect. no matter how another person see's you, you are beatiful and we are all gods children.

Be comfortable as YOU are. not who or what THEY want you to be comfortable as.