Time to take a break for my Random Thoughts!

Have you ever sat back and wondered why you seem to have so many problem's in your relationship? or just people in general having problem's in they relationship period? that's also something that I've been wondering about for a long time. dont get me wrong, I'm not blinded by the things that men pull, I know about how men play the game but it's that one thing that I cant nip in the bud and that's why do they cheat!?! I've heard all the scenerio's to where a man want to try something different or the man might want a woman with a bigger chest or a bigger butt and etc but that does not answer my train of thoughts. it must not be the bigger ass, but nor chest because it was something about you that attracted him to you in the first place.

A man should be happy with the one that they are with. wouldn't you think so?! I mean, a man could be getting all that he want at home but will still have the audacity to go out and cheat with another woman. and who's to say if he is protecting his self and bringing you some kind of STD home from some nasty girl that he decide's to mess with! I just dont understand men. they... they get into relationship's with us woman and still want to play the field. if you want to play the field, spare us fella's that's all we ask. if you're only out looking for a sex partner, then you should let that woman know that instead of making her your "girl" or "woman" and then still play the field.

Then we got some ladies out here that also like's to play the field as well and would have a man at home that will not cheat. and ladies, respect yourself. because if you dont, no one else will. people will treat you the way that you portray yourself to be. then we want to get upset when a man call you out of your name, using names such as Hoe (not Whore because hoe is more below the whore status. which neither is good but hoe just sound nastier...even though it's an garden tool) but anyway, names such as Bust Down and Slut and etc....any name in the book that will make a woman feel low. ladies if you got a good man at home....and the same for the fella's, if you got a good woman at home, do right by that woman and do right by that man. if you feel that you dont want to be with just that one person, then dont get serious.

And it's the talk about love. what is love? if you love someone, you will not go out and still be searching. It's this guy that I know whom cheats on his woman but yet he will not let her go and just the thought of another man talking to her or even having sex with his woman bother's him. but he could go out and mess around and do whatever when he wants but, she cant. wake the hell up! you can not have your cake and eat it too. point blank. if your going to get into a relationship and call yourself being serious about it....then be just that and leave all that other mess for the birds!

Beyonce in the Top 10 with Doe!

She's beautiful, got a bangin' bod, a gorgeous voice and a loyal man. Ready to be sick? Beyonce also makes a truckload of dough. In fact, the R&B beauty made Forbes Magazine's list of the richest women in music this year, and she's in the Top 10.The list, called 'Cash Queens of Music,' also features big names like Gwen Stefani, Shakira and Mariah Carey, and takes into account not only the sweet moolah these leading ladies are making through CD sales and tours, but also their varied side projects including clothing and perfume lines.

I aint mad at you Bey! It's nice to see that she do know what to do with her money. unlike a few celeb's I know of but will not name ;)

!Video of the day!

Well, I wont necessarily say that it's the video of the day, I just LOVE this song! and I cant get enough of it. with his fine, sensational voice having self :)

Lil Mama f/ Chris Brown & T-Pain

This video put me in the mind of Michael Jackson and his little sister Janet! it's good to look up to the ones who opened the doors for them but I'm getting a little sick of it now.

Daddy to the Rescue

LOS ANGELES (Reuters) - A Los Angeles court on Friday placed the affairs of troubled pop singer Britney Spears under the temporary control of her father while she remains hospitalized under psychiatric care.
Superior Court public information officer Allan Parachini said the "temporary conservatorship" was in place until Monday afternoon, at which time a new hearing will take place. He said the court also issued a "civil harassment restraining order" against Spears' manager, Sam Lutfi.
The conservatorship cedes control over the singer's liquid assets, including her home, to Jamie Spears, who petitioned the court for control in an emergency hearing on Friday. Attorney Andrew Wallete shares conservator duties with Spears' dad.
With the court order, Jamie Spears now has the ability to supersede any other powers-of-attorney that may have been issued by the singer, cancel contracts she may have signed and bar people from visiting her in the Los Angeles area hospital.
Spears, 26, the former Disney child star and chart-topping singer, has seen her personal life spin out-of-control since she filed for divorce from ex-husband Kevin Federline in 2006.
Most recently, the Louisiana native has adopted a British accent, caroused around Hollywood Hills wearing pink wigs, and in early January was hospitalized for a mental evaluation after going into hysterics when Federline's representatives tried to retrieve their kids after a visit with Spears.
On Thursday of this week, Spears was again rushed to a Los Angeles area hospital in an ambulance, where she remains, and put under a three-day psychiatric hold.
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You be the Judge!

Katie Holmes has dismissed claims that she was pregnant with ex-fiance Chris Klein's baby at the time of their split.

The Mad Money star began dating husband Tom Cruise within weeks of separating from the American Pie star in early 2005, after five years together.
After a whirlwind romance, Katie and Tom announced their engagement, and the couple welcomed baby daughter Suri in April 2006.
A close pal of Klein's recently told the National Enquirer that Klein had revealed to him that Katie was expecting his child.
The friend claimed: "Shortly after his (Klein's) relationship with Katie ended, Chris and I had a heart-to-heart.
"We were having dinner at Cafeteria, a restaurant in New York's Chelsea district, when Chris blurted out: 'Dude, you know I got Katie preggers.'
"There was a long silence. I realised Chris had said more than he had intended. My next thought was: 'What happened to the baby?' (But) from the look in Chris' eyes, I realised this was highly personal. I didn't want to probe any further."
A spokesperson for Katie insists there is no truth to the allegations, branding the Enquirer's story "false", reports MSNBC.

Britney Spears 'Lynn Rage

Britney Spears hysterically accused her mother of sleeping with her lover as she was admitted to hospital.
The 'Piece of Me' singer - who has been classed "G.D." (gravely disabled) by health care professionals at Los Angeles' UCLA Medical Center - screamed that Lynne "wanted to sleep with her boyfriend" as she was taken away in the early hours of yesterday morning (31.01.08).
Sources claim Britney raged: "The only reason she's admitting me is because she wants to be alone with her boyfriend! She wants to sleep with my boyfriend!!"
The 26-year-old singer didn't specify if she meant photographer Adnan Ghalib or her ex-husband Kevin Federline who Lynne has been in close contact with.
Hospital sources said Britney arrived at 2.15am but was not admitted until 4.15am as she was causing such a scene. They claim she was on Adderall - a stimulant used to treat Attention Deficit Disorder - and was taking up to 10 laxatives a day.
When she calmed down the 'Gimme More' singer talked about how much she misses her sons Sean Preston, two, and 16-month-old Jayden James.
The medical term G.D. means the patient is unable to take care of basic needs, including food, clothing or shelter. It is one of the criteria for involuntary commitment.
Meanwhile, Britney's 'manager' Sam Lutfi has accused Lynne of not caring about her daughter's condition.
In a text message sent to US TV show 'Access Hollywood' he wrote: "No. Her mother is not someone who cares about her daughter, she's only concerned with herself. Sad but true. She was too busy getting a manicure to come over yesterday, despite her daughter's pleas. Sad, very sad."
Lutfi also revealed he feels responsible for Britney and is the only person with her best interests at heart.
He said: "I feel like I have a moral obligation.
"You meet her and she cries, and she begs you not to turn on her. I have three sisters and I would do the same for any of them.
"Britney has never paid me, I have never sold any photos of her, and I have never accepted money from the media."

Marc Anthony has put a little pressure on wife Jennifer Lopez by revealing that he might miss the delivery of his baby because of work commitments.

The latin star has bizarrely scheduled concert in his native Puerto Rico next week - the same time when J.Lo is due to give birth in a New York hospital.In a new interview with Puerto Rican newspaper El Nuevo Dia, Anthony says he hopes his wife won't go into labour while he's working."I've been with her 24 hours a day, and I'm going to be away from her for just a few hours" said the 39-year-old. "She can't go into labour during that time."I mean, I'm praying that doesn't happen."Anthony insists he'll fufill his work commitments but return to New York immediately after the show.The singer didn't offer any more details about the impending birth, but reports Lopez had checked into hospital on Thursday appeared premature when the singer was spotted shopping for baby clothes at a recent mall.

Jennifer Lopez will wear a couture hospital gown when she gives birth.
The 'Do It Well' singer - who is expected to give birth to twins later this month - has had four pastel-coloured couture hospital gowns and a coordinating robe designed by dearjonnies.com to wear when she checks into hospital.
A source said: "J.Lo has spent her entire pregnancy wearing Roberto Cavelli designer maternity wear she had specially made. She would never let her stylish image go - not even when giving birth."
The 38-year-old 'Play' singer is expected to check into New York's North Shore University Medical Center, in Manhasset, to give birth via Caesarean section on February 14.
The hospital has reportedly prepared a luxury suite for the star and husband Marc Anthony, complete with soft furnishings, wooden flooring and giant flat screen TVs.
A source said: "The J.Lo room is a little more lavish than what you find in the average maternity ward."
The couple are believed to have chosen the names Max and Emme for the boy and girl twins, reportedly conceived using IVF treatment.

Despite being a huge Hollywood movie star, Will Smith hasn't forgotten his former music career as one half of DJ Jazzy Jeff and the Fresh Prince.
The I Am Legend actor is set to perform a couple of dates with his old friend this summer.
"Jeff and I perform a couple of times a year," he says. "We're going to go out there in July and we're checking out some places throughout the world to do some big shows. To circle back to that golden age of hip hop - we're planning some things."
For years, better known as the Fresh Prince from the hit TV show, Will has fond memories of the day people stopped referring to him as the character.
"On July 6 1996, when the Fresh Prince finished, and after Independence Day came out, that Monday was the first time that somebody called me Mr Smith," he says. "I'm like 'what the hell?' All through the Fresh Prince, it was, 'hey hey Fresh Prince, Fresh Prince'. But that morning when the box office numbers came out after Independence Day, people said 'good morning Mr Smith.' It was so bizarre."