When Is It Time To Say I Do???

Taking that next step to Marriage is a BIG responsibilty. and not only that, it is also a life time commitment! And with that being said, When is it time to say I Do?!

Getting married to me is a big responsibility and a lot of thing's come's along with it. such as; your word to be with this person through sickness and in health and till death do you both part. Whatever dept or problems you may have in general become's your debt and problem as well. It's a lot that come's along with it instead of just getting all glamorous and pretty to show up at the church/alter just to say I do!

Now, the thing that I've been thinking about(and also had debatable conversations about) is people actually getting married without really getting to know a person first. being with someone for two weeks is NOT enough time to get to know a person that your caliming to be your significant other. being with someone for 3 months, again, is NOT enough time to get to know a person that your claiming to be your significant other.

Take the time out to really get to know a person first. especially if you have children involved. you have to get to know the person's background history first...before you want to get in the position to calling someone your wife or your husband. dont go playing the "married" card only because it sounds good and that's what society expect you to do. do it when you know it's right to do and when YOU feel it's right to do.