Valentines Day is slowly approaching and with that being said, why does that day...February 15th have to be the day where your significant other have to do extra things for you?
I have had Conversation's with a lot of people concerning that day, and some may say that they will not want anything special for that day. and some will say that they want Diamond Rings and Roses and Candy/Cards an etc. Then you got some that will say they dont really care about that day because they dont have a mate for that day so basically, they just say forget Valentines Day (with the vulgar word beginning with F).
I use to look forward to getting gift's and candy for that "Special" day. but then I thought, 'why can't your(hyperthetically thinking) boyfriend/girlfriend make the day speacil 365 day's out of an year? why only one day?'. Valentines Day is suppose to be a day to where you can show your significant other how much you love them. but if you really take the time out from being greedy and wanting extra and glamorous things, and just take a look at the things you want and may get, are things that are materialistic!
Is that what a relationship is based upon? Materialistic things? I mean seriously. whatever happened to just spending quality time together? or just cooking a meal for your mate...making a nice warm bubble bath, rub/massage your significant other feet..massage their back and relaxing together and watching a blockbuster movie, conversate an etc. doing little things such as that is saying a whole lot. I have a friend, who told me that she wants a wedding ring for Valentines Day. but the problem with that is, her bf is not ready to marry. and the saddest part about that; he does not want to marry her! but she's willing to go all out in getting him the things that he wants be it: clothes, shoes and earrings. and I'm not talking about a dollar store earring, we talking R-Kelly diamond stud earring.
Dont take this one day... and go all out for you significant other... just because it'll look good for the both of you. or just to say what your s/o got for you. do it out of love. and if buying your mate things that cost a hundred dollars or more is showing them that you love them. then you need help! and with that being said, here is a love Quote of the day:
"People think love is an emotion. Love is good sense".
1 comment:
I TOTALLY AGREE WITH YOU. WHY NOT DO IT 365 DAYS OUT OF AN YEAR INSTEAD OF 364. VALENTINES DAY FOR ME USE TO BE AN EXCITING DAY BUT THEN IT GOT BORED BECAUSE IT WAS NOTHING BUT CANDY, FLOWERS,MOVIE,CANDY,FLOWERS,MOVIE,CANDY,FLOWERS,MOVIE ALL OVER AGAIN AND I GOT TIRED OF IT. SO IF IM DATING AROUND THIS TIME OF THE YEAR, I WOULD BREAK IT OFF WITH THE GUY IM WITH AND TREAT MYSELF TO SOMETHING NICE :)
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